"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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women who despise men

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How does macing some loser cellmate, probably for not being compliant....lead to this conclusion:

spang said:
this just goes to show you, that just like men bury their contempt for women, women carry their contempt for men too. we talk shiat about women all day here, but somewhere on the net theres a forum where women talk the same shiat about us.
I think your hypothesis is quite a stretch my friend. Fvck losers that end up in jail, I could care less how they are treated....should be out working on the goddamn potholes.
 

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TheException said:
How does macing some loser cellmate, probably for not being compliant....lead to this conclusion:



I think your hypothesis is quite a stretch my friend. Fvck losers that end up in jail, I could care less how they are treated....should be out working on the goddamn potholes.
people in jail are still human beings. im making the point if i was in her place i would take no satisfaction in beating up prisoners ever if i had to. she said she got SATISFACTION from it because of what he said. i dont understand how thats right.
 

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people in jail are still human beings
ohhh your right....having a TV, 3 square meals a day, etc isnt enough since..."Theeerrreeee Hummaaaannnn wahhhh".

Get over yourself....there are people in there that raped minors, killed other people, etc. I couldnt care less if they get maced every day of their lives. Who cares WHY she got satisfaction. Im betting you never have dealt with people like she has...
 

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TheException said:
ohhh your right....having a TV, 3 square meals a day, etc isnt enough since..."Theeerrreeee Hummaaaannnn wahhhh".

Get over yourself....there are people in there that raped minors, killed other people, etc. I couldnt care less if they get maced every day of their lives. Who cares WHY she got satisfaction. Im betting you never have dealt with people like she has...
ive dealt with enough *******s i wanted to tear their throats out but i didnt.

fine im wrong sorry forget it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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im not saying the guy didnt deserve it he did. but hell lets forget it. next person who insults me ill mace their eyes out and take satisfaction. i dont understand the world anymore.
 
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