"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women who avoid eye contact

SL2012

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I generally take this as a blatant sign of disinterest, even if the girl is shy because WE ALL like to look at stuff we like

E.g, There is a girl in my gym class who I think is hot and I have talked to a couple of times (on my initiation) but.......

Whenever I walk by her, whether it be on the stairs or in class it self, SHE AVOIDS looking at me even when I am looking directly at her.

What has been your experience?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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j0504s

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if they can not look at you they feel you are more dominant then them...it doesnt mean u got her 100% obvs...but it is deff. a sign on interest
 
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