"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Women who are intimidated by?

FrankWank

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What are some things women are intimated by when meeting guys?
Looks, build, job etc...?????

Do you think intimidation is power?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tmpgstx

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No Frank, intimidation can often be a disadvantage. The reason for this as discussed in part on other threads is that girl has to feel worthy of you. This is a key thing about women that separates them from men. They would rather date someone on 'their level' as opposed to someone more out of their league.

They think for some reason the guy would leave eventually and break their heart. Again this goes back to worthiness. "He would eventually see me for who i really am and leave" type of thing etc. If the girl has low self-esteem or insecurities, she doesn't feel worthy of someone she finds outstanding.

She always have to feel and be attractive around him and for him, otherwise she's afraid she'll lose him. It ups the ante so to speak, something a more confident and secure woman could handle, because they know their self-worth is good.

It's why girls at the bar will often look at some confident, great-looking successful dude, but pass him by for some flaming idiot. They are intimidated and would rather go with what they're comfortable with in that impulsive scenerio where there is little time for deciding who you are going home with that night.
 

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Women might be intimidated if you have a frown or a scowl on your face, regardless if you're angry or happy. Hell, I think most people avoid individuals who aren't smiling.
 
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