"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Women who are interested in you won't confuse you."

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Atom Smasher said:
I always find it interesting that the very young guys almost always say, "Every woman is different" while most of the guys who have been on the planet for over 3 or 4 decades maintain that women by and large fit into an astoundingly predictable and universal behavioral template, within which there are minor variances.

The baseline of women's mode of thinking and reactions always becomes evident once you know her long enough, no matter how "different from the rest" she may appear on the surface. They are herd creatures and cannot survive with any degree of mental health outside of the herd, hence their established baseline that all women and some enlightened men see.
I concur ^^

Guys keep in mind that here, we are not talking about general likes or dislikes rather base personality that is run by emotional needs which in women largely suffices their physiological needs as well.

If almost all the straight men are same why wouldn't women have the same base personality huh ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Atom Smasher said:
I always find it interesting that the very young guys almost always say, "Every woman is different" while most of the guys who have been on the planet for over 3 or 4 decades maintain that women by and large fit into an astoundingly predictable and universal behavioral template, within which there are minor variances.

The baseline of women's mode of thinking and reactions always becomes evident once you know her long enough, no matter how "different from the rest" she may appear on the surface. They are herd creatures and cannot survive with any degree of mental health outside of the herd, hence their established baseline that all women and some enlightened men see.
Interesting. This is food for thought. Thanks.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I always find it interesting that the very young guys almost always say, "Every woman is different" while most of the guys who have been on the planet for over 3 or 4 decades maintain that women by and large fit into an astoundingly predictable and universal behavioral template, within which there are minor variances.

The baseline of women's mode of thinking and reactions always becomes evident once you know her long enough, no matter how "different from the rest" she may appear on the surface. They are herd creatures and cannot survive with any degree of mental health outside of the herd, hence their established baseline that all women and some enlightened men see.
I also find it interesting that boys do the exact same things as you describe from womens perspective. Now I have only lived in this planet for almost 2 decades, and I already see men doing the same ish. Betas, Alphas, DJs.. I find them very similar. The only difference is thatt betas hasnt realised how the womans conditioend mind works, alpha and Djs has realised that. Otherwise they are very similar. Now almost all alphas do the same stuff. A little bit diffrent, but I can sense the alphaness very easily! Also I can sense the betaness very easily! deep down, they are human beings, very same.. a little bit different only. The other brings excitement joy into my life, and the other brings comfort, boredom, not much new.
 

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Purefilth said:
And being as you are still a virgin, how would you be able to vouch for ANY seduction techniques?:rock:
Virginity has nothing to do with it. If you had any brains you'd realize seduction and sex are two very different things.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
Virginity has nothing to do with it. If you had any brains you'd realize seduction and sex are two very different things.
If I had any brains:crackup:
Yeah, ok - im a windowlicker because a wierd little virgin on the internet says so.:rolleyes:

You do realise that your comments on both seduction and sex are irrelevant, right?

I'm not going to sit and argue with you because you're a typical KJ - all theories, and "ooh, this is great! try this!" with absolutely ZERO experience.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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