"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I read a newspaper article which indicated an American woman setup a website that warn women about men who cheat on women. The website enable women to log on and post their worse dating experience. She can warn other women about that man in certain city, neighborhood. The site also reveals his profession, his attire, manners so women can easily identify these supposedly cheaters.

Why can't men set up a web site that warn us about women who are con us too? :box: We should take a more active role in identifying women who are clearly manipulative for money or other reasons.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am not dwelling on about bad dating experience. I wonder if men should have similar website.
 

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picard said:
I am not dwelling on about bad dating experience. I wonder if men should have similar website.
What is that going to achieve? Most Men will not avoid women that are hot even if they cheated. Most men would chase hot sluts so essentially you will be helping her out and not hurting her.

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oh, Ok. women tend write stuff about us frequently. We don't express our feelings verbally. :whistle: They might think we are bunch of wussy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Did anyone find their picture on that site? I have to admit I looked.

Would you be an AFC or a Don Juan if you were listed on that site?
 

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That site is great. I want to sign up and just post the stupidest bullsh!t I can come up with and watch the carnage....

OMG girls! I am so heartbroken! I was out with like 17 of my guy friends the other day, and I saw my boyfriend sitting at a table with an older woman!! I was horrified! He claims she's his "mother", but he didn't text me twenty minutes before and after leaving the house, so I just don't know if I can trust him anymore. I went straight to my last three boyfriend's houses and they had no good advice to give me. What's his next excuse going to be "my grandma died, I can't go shopping at macys with you today"? Please girls, help me!!1!
Ha! That would rock.....

Some of the things already on there aren't much better. These are parts of an actual letter that they replied to......

Recently, my man let me use his laptop computer when I didn’t have mine. On it, I found e-mails from women he was dating while he was dating me and I don’t know what to do.
So you're a snooping *****.

We started dating in December 2005. His first deceit came a few days after that, but I didn’t know it until recently.
OMG!! You mean he actually had the gall to look at another woman after a date or two with you? What a bastard.

He told me that he did not go out with anyone on New Years’ Eve except me. However, his computer tells a different story. He was out with a date on New Years’ Eve after having lunch with me!
Not only that, he was seeing another woman well into January when we had already started dating and sleeping together.
Wow, roughly a month in and you haven't managed to hermetically seal his balls away in a cupboard somewhere. Girl, your game is off, that's your problem.

He was also making lunch plans with other women and even going so far as to exchange e-mails with a woman at his gym a few days before I was scheduled for surgery in February!
Ok, ladies, let's round us up a posse. There's a lynchin goin down, he emailed another girl.

He also has an assortment of pornographic pictures on his computer.
Dear God! Not.... an assortment!! Oh, the horror!

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picard said:
Why can't men set up a web site that warn us about women who are con us too? :box: We should take a more active role in identifying women who are clearly manipulative for money or other reasons.
Nah, real men have lives and they dont thrive on drama.
But when all said and done and bollocks aside its not like any of these chicks are gonna dump the guy who she finds on the website, hell hes half famous, she gains a step higher on the social ladder.

In actual fact I'd guess 90% of the b!tches who go on there will go DDB eyes for the majority of "CHEATERS!!!!!."





He also has an assortment of pornographic pictures on his computer.
LOL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The reason the guys "cheated" on them is because these women wouldn't get off the damn computer and into the bed. Seems pretty cut-and-dry to me. This is just another indicator of the truth in my "Women's collective logic" theory.
 

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picard said:
Why can't men set up a web site that warn us about women who are con us too? We should take a more active role in identifying women who are clearly manipulative for money or other reasons.
We already do. It's called the Don Juan Discussion Forum.

Heh,..
 

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Ante up???

I have 500 imaginary DJ dollars and I am willing to bet them ALL that over 50% of the men listed are there because "she" was pissed for being dumped.

Could the site just be an evil spawn of a bitter woman’s wrath?

I haven't visited the site yet; do the accused get to post rebuttals??

I’d bet more if I had it, I have siblings and I have seen the bitterness of a woman’s scorn, it isn’t pretty….
 

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Good call pixie.

":cry: I sit in front of the computer all night eating bon-bons and getting fat and he left me for another woman! :cry: What a jerk! I mean *eat, chomp, chew*, has this ever happened to anyone else? *munch, chocolate, munch* Whew, I'm working up a sweat just typing this... I need to take a break!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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He also has an assortment of pornographic pictures on his computer.

Dear God! Not.... an assortment!! Oh, the horror!
LMFAO!!! Now tell me women don't like their porn too. What the hell do they think Danielle Steele writes? Science Fiction stories? It's porn for women. And making love to a vibrator? The cheating b1tch! :D
 
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