"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's good bro
That kind of girls are suckers and attention seekers
Acting that way shows their true value, she makes fun of her self only and probably would end her life depressed as well
You know that, that type is usually miserable inside.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think women act confused when they’re personally confused or don’t have a clear sense of how they feel about something; either way not good for a man if he’s interested. So generally if a woman is ‘playing games’ or seemingly uncertain, her interest just isn’t peaked high enough with that individual.

When a woman has interest in a guy, it’s obvious to everyone. But I don’t actually think it is beneficial for women to have the man confused, if she’s interested.. because who is going to take the initiative? She wants the man to do that, so being clear with her intentions once she knows is actually self serving and honestly more fun for both. It’s quite natural.

Granted, there are always women who just want to manipulate and play games for a sense of control over their lives. But they are bottom-dwelling and should just be dismissed and avoided.
If you’re a man, spending time with a woman, who is always confused, then that’s on you, as that’s giving your autonomy away.
 

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Was this inspired by @TheGambino
Coworker saga? Lol

Yes needed.
They live in ambiguity. Its a woman's backdrop.
Yes, partly. That got me thinking about how women always like things to remain vague and uncertain. They love it and it's always to their benefit. Whereas what is to a man's benefit is to know exactly where you stand.
 

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Women only confuse you when they aren't fully interested. If you find this happening a lot then it simply means you are not screening these women properly and accepting this.

You should be walking away from them and finding new women who make their interest obvious.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think women act confused when they’re personally confused or don’t have a clear sense of how they feel about something; either way not good for a man if he’s interested. So generally if a woman is ‘playing games’ or seemingly uncertain, her interest just isn’t peaked high enough with that individual.

When a woman has interest in a guy, it’s obvious to everyone. But I don’t actually think it is beneficial for women to have the man confused, if she’s interested.. because who is going to take the initiative? She wants the man to do that, so being clear with her intentions once she knows is actually self serving and honestly more fun for both. It’s quite natural.

Granted, there are always women who just want to manipulate and play games for a sense of control over their lives. But they are bottom-dwelling and should just be dismissed and avoided.
If you’re a man, spending time with a woman, who is always confused, then that’s on you, as that’s giving your autonomy away.
Yes, women want you confused when they're not interested and want to take advantage of you. But that's a longer title.
 

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Yes, women want you confused when they're not interested and want to take advantage of you. But that's a longer title.
They don't "want" anything. They exhibit clear signs of disinterest that guys who won't accept it ignore and cling to meaningless emojis or lol's to convince themselves the woman is interested.

Literally the only confusion is coming from the guy himself not reading obvious low interest signs and deluding themselves into thinking she has some interest.

I mean you ask a woman out and she says anything other than yes, where is confusion coming from? She flakes without offering to reschedule, what is confusing about that?

Only an inexperienced guy or a guy who doesn't have any idea how women work is going to be confused by that stuff.
 

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As soon as the guy finds out she's not interested, he's gone.
I blame the guy in this case because it's his job to find out as soon as possible if the Woman is interested in him or not. If he himself is not direct and upfront, she will string him along indefinitely. AKA Time Wasting Vampires.
 

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I blame the guy in this case because it's his job to find out as soon as possible if the Woman is interested in him or not. If he himself is not direct and upfront, she will string him along indefinitely. AKA Time Wasting Vampires.
Exactly my point. More of an issue of not knowing is a guy convincing himself that she is when it is clear she isn't.
 

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They don't "want" anything. They exhibit clear signs of disinterest that guys who won't accept it ignore and cling to meaningless emojis or lol's to convince themselves the woman is interested.

Literally the only confusion is coming from the guy himself not reading obvious low interest signs and deluding themselves into thinking she has some interest.

I mean you ask a woman out and she says anything other than yes, where is confusion coming from? She flakes without offering to reschedule, what is confusing about that?

Only an inexperienced guy or a guy who doesn't have any idea how women work is going to be confused by that stuff.
womens mind overrated
mean I get what you saying but if say something is special it acts as if it special while its not
Dont believe in the men from Mars women from Venus philosophy, do believe that biologically they have different purpose and therefore their intuition determines their survival goals, like making and caring for babies. But when it comes to mind they the same they just made to believe that they're different so they allow themselves to act as if they are because the status azzholes and pleasers gives them because azzhole never struggles with girls no matter what person he is and pleasers are just weak and need female protection.

If a guy is short or AFC or whatever doesnt mean women should act like *****. A man is a man and that fact makes him dangerous and that is something that should be respected. Men who shows disrespect to other men because of women are pleasers. They forgot what side they are.

Personally dont struggle with girls to a degree I want to put a gun to my head. But if Afcs ever want to blow this world I would understand that
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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womens mind overrated
mean I get what you saying but if say something is special it acts as if it special while its not
Dont believe in the men from Mars women from Venus philosophy, do believe that biologically they have different purpose and therefore their intuition determines their survival goals, like making and caring for babies. But when it comes to mind they the same they just made to believe that they're different so they allow themselves to act as if they are because the status azzholes and pleasers gives them because azzhole never struggles with girls no matter what person he is and pleasers are just weak and need female protection.

If a guy is short or AFC or whatever doesnt mean women should act like *****. A man is a man and that fact makes him dangerous and that is something that should be respected. Men who shows disrespect to other men because of women are pleasers. They forgot what side they are.

Personally dont struggle with girls to a degree I want to put a gun to my head. But if Afcs ever want to blow this world I would understand that
I don't agree with anything you just wrote. Not how it works bro.

Women make it obvious if they are interested and obvious when they are not. They expect guys to be able to "get it". If a guy doesn't that tells them they aren't experienced with women which then acts as a further turn off to them.

AFCs can learn to be better. They have to put in the work and effort. Anyone who thinks you can go from bad to good with women in the course of 2 or 3 dates is only kidding themselves. It will take 50 dates or 60 dates...but if they actually learn from their experiences they will get better.

It's not rocket science. You learn what works for you and continue to do it and learn what doesn't work and stop doing it.
 

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I don't agree with anything you just wrote. Not how it works bro.

Women make it obvious if they are interested and obvious when they are not. They expect guys to be able to "get it". If a guy doesn't that tells them they aren't experienced with women which then acts as a further turn off to them.

AFCs can learn to be better. They have to put in the work and effort. Anyone who thinks you can go from bad to good with women in the course of 2 or 3 dates is only kidding themselves. It will take 50 dates or 60 dates...but if they actually learn from their experiences they will get better.

It's not rocket science. You learn what works for you and continue to do it and learn what doesn't work and stop doing it.
Dont need to agree this is why they call it manosphere we just share ideas and thoughts that encourage thinking
 

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I don't agree with anything you just wrote. Not how it works bro.

Women make it obvious if they are interested and obvious when they are not. They expect guys to be able to "get it". If a guy doesn't that tells them they aren't experienced with women which then acts as a further turn off to them.

AFCs can learn to be better. They have to put in the work and effort. Anyone who thinks you can go from bad to good with women in the course of 2 or 3 dates is only kidding themselves. It will take 50 dates or 60 dates...but if they actually learn from their experiences they will get better.

It's not rocket science. You learn what works for you and continue to do it and learn what doesn't work and stop doing it.
I agree with you on that.
But sometimes members who thinks they "get it" makes other members who comes here just for help and learning feel that they have no right to even be, and that's gay as ****
 

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I agree with you on that.
But sometimes members who thinks they "get it" makes other members who comes here just for help and learning feel that they have no right to even be, and that's gay as ****
Eventually women are just human beings. Treat her like shes spacial youll get b1tch
 

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They don't "want" anything. They exhibit clear signs of disinterest that guys who won't accept it ignore and cling to meaningless emojis or lol's to convince themselves the woman is interested.

Literally the only confusion is coming from the guy himself not reading obvious low interest signs and deluding themselves into thinking she has some interest.

I mean you ask a woman out and she says anything other than yes, where is confusion coming from? She flakes without offering to reschedule, what is confusing about that?

Only an inexperienced guy or a guy who doesn't have any idea how women work is going to be confused by that stuff.
There are many cases like that where it's obvious that the woman has no interest and the guy somehow believes that there is something where there is nothing but it's not like that all the time.

Some women " play " with these unexperienced guys. They send them nudes and sweet texts but whenever the guy wants to meet, they find an excuse.
Or in some case where the woman is extremely dependent on the social group, she uses her femininity to have better relations with the male members of the group.
For women self preservation is no.1 subconsciously. This is why she will do anything for her survival. Even if she has no interest in a guy, she will use her femininity if necessary.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There are many cases like that where it's obvious that the woman has no interest and the guy somehow believes that there is something where there is nothing but it's not like that all the time.

Some women " play " with these unexperienced guys. They send them nudes and sweet texts but whenever the guy wants to meet, they find an excuse.
Or in some case where the woman is extremely dependent on the social group, she uses her femininity to have better relations with the male members of the group.
For women self preservation is no.1 subconsciously. This is why she will do anything for her survival. Even if she has no interest in a guy, she will use her femininity if necessary.
Would add that what women use is not their femininity but her social status as a feminine figure.

Femininity could not exist without masculinity
Women should feel feminine and spacial only if men gives her that approval cause he likes her and she respects him.

Not all women who "use" men are evil. Some just careless because it is up to the man to get the truth that hes been manipulated by social delusions. They see these guys more like vampires so his emotions are not that really important as he feels

Other women are just vampires themselves. They wanna have d1cks and live men's world but their inability to truly turn into something that they could not possibly be makes them really mad and manipulative, these women are not spacial they just need a fvck but this is never enough because sex is not everything in life, they just b1tches and they turn their anger on weak men and unfortunately enough it works
 
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