"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women want sex as much as men lol

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There is a common misconception floating around this site about women wanting as much or even more sex than you do

This is wrong and adpoting this mindset will not get you pu$$y

Im not saying women dont like sex heck they’re the ones with an organ designed specifically for pleasure

but the problem is they don’t think about having it 22 hours a day like we do which immediately puts us on the back pedal

to add to the problem in the last 30 years a large majority of smart women have discovered that being able to dictate when they have sex provides them with more power over men than they ever could of imagined

this is why being thirsty with women wont get you anywhere

the more i learn about the “game” the more i learn it’s basically a game of charades who can hide what they really want for the longest

some women will fold faster than others , but if you make her believe she can only get your attention by offering you sex then il bet my last dollar she will be in your bed as fast as her little legs can carry her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Everybody thinks the same as much about sex. We are animals after all. The difference is that each gender thinks differently .
 

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the more i learn about the “game” the more i learn it’s basically a game of charades who can hide what they really want for the longest
I'd disagree. Sure if you're desperate for a relationship, you should do your damned best to hide that, and work on your mindset ASAP. But the game is that men act and women want to be acted upon--simple as that. They don't want you to tell them how you plan to act; they don't want you to listen to whatever they say to test your will to act for yourself; they just want to be acted upon.

Once you know you want a woman then they'll already know it and you won't get any points for hiding your will to act--so embrace that desire. Let it show through in your eye contact, tone, body language. You can talk about the weather at that point, but the necessary communication is going to take place.

You're right that women don't want sex as much as men do--that'd be totally ignoring the effects of testosterone. But women are more desperate for the presence of masculinity than men are for sex; for the right man, their sex drive'll goes through the roof because subconsciously she knows that's the only way to get him to stay.
 

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There is a common misconception floating around this site about women wanting as much or even more sex than you do
Women want sex more than men do. The reason they don't act like this is because of three things: (1) The consequence of sex (pregnancy) is greater for women. (2) It is relatively easy for them to get sex, therefore they do not value it as much because it is not a rare commodity. (3) Ongoing anti-Slut BS foisted on them by other women. Look when a group of men get together and start talking what happens... we start talking about sports, money, and or latest hobby project or work. When women get together, they talk about their relationships and sex. Men don't sit around and talk about how to be better in bed and how to get off better... Women do. Any talk about sex men might have will be something like "Hey, you should have seen the hottie I banged last night.", bragging.... then back to sports.

This is wrong and adpoting this mindset will not get you pu$$y
I agree... but let me say that you have to let women know you want sex... if you don't then women will always categorize you as a gay male friend. You should let women know you are interested in sex with women -- PLURAL, when you start focusing you intentions EXCLUSIVELY on one women, then she starts to see sex as a tool, and she will make it difficult. She has to believe you are interested in sex, and if you re not going to get it from her, then you WILL go elsewhere. This works.

some women will fold faster than others , but if you make her believe she can only get your attention by offering you sex then il bet my last dollar she will be in your bed as fast as her little legs can carry her
I completely agree. They fold faster if they think if you don't give it up you will leave. If she thinks she has you hooked, she will hold out, and the longer she holds out, the harder it becomes for her to see you as a sexual being.
 

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Women didnt discover that sex = conttol recently, its men who are made ignorant of an anciently known fact.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women didnt discover that sex = conttol recently, its men who are made ignorant of an anciently known fact.
I learned it was done 1000's of years ago as a way to control males. Also in the late 1800's there was feminist propaganda put together that urged women to only use sex to hook her husband and to take it away when they had the children that they desired.
 

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Great video I just watched on this subject yesterday. Even if they do think about it as much as men do they don't need/want it as badly.

 

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"A healthy male produces between 12 to 17 times the amount of testosterone a woman does. It is a biological impossibility for a woman to want sex as much as, or as often as men. Trust me, when a woman says, “I don’t understand why sex is so important to guys” she’s speaking the literal truth. No woman will ever experience 17 times the amount of her own testosterone levels (barring steroids). Amongst its many other effects, testosterone is the primary hormone involved with stimulating human libido. I should also add that, on average, and barring environmental variables, a mans testosterone only declines 1% per year beyond age 40, so even at age 60 the average, healthy male is only dealing with an average 20% deficit in testosterone."
-The Rational Male
 

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Women want sex just as much as men maybe more say what you want, I know and seen from experience.
 

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The person, male or female, who wants sex the least will more than likely control the relationship. And the less a man wants sex from his female partner, the more she wants it from him.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women want sex but only from guys they are highly attracted to. Men want sex from most any woman. Women turn into compliant horn dogs for a male they find very attractive and into cold fish if they don't find the guy highly attractive. Men being available for most women but women being only available for highly attractive guys works hand in hand.
 

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"....I should also add that, on average, and barring environmental variables, a mans testosterone only declines 1% per year beyond age 40, so even at age 60 the average, healthy male is only dealing with an average 20% deficit in testosterone."
-The Rational Male
Thanks to posting this.... This is the truth. A healthy man in his 50s and 60s, who does not use tobacco or drink too much, who gets plenty of exercise and sleep, and eats a healthy diet will NOT see in significant depreciation in Testosterone and sex drive. Men really don't NEED Viagra until their 70s, if they are otherwise doing things right. Middle age guys need Viagra when they are with women that no longer turn them on. I'm 49, and my Testosterone levels are right at the Median Level for a guy who is 25.

Testosterone levels drop when body fat goes up and muscle mass goes down. Take care of yourself and there is no reason why you can't please women well into old age without chemical assistance.
 

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Women only want sex from the men they are attracted to and will turn into complete horndogs for him. If they are in attracted, their legs will close up.

Most men on the other hand will still banf a woman that isn't all that attractive just to get their nuts off.

For women, it's all about fvcking their minds. Men just want to get a nut off.
 

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Women only want sex from the men they are attracted to and will turn into complete horndogs for him. If they are in attracted, their legs will close up.

Most men on the other hand will still banf a woman that isn't all that attractive just to get their nuts off.

For women, it's all about fvcking their minds. Men just want to get a nut off.
You got that right. I see it play out every night. Now even if they don't become instant horndogs in an obvious manner, they will sooner or later.
 

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Before you conclude that women want sex as much as men do, consider that men have at least ten times the level of testosterone than do women.

Women may enjoy sex as much as men. But want sex as much as men? Don't think so.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should we really care at all?

Testosterone give power to men. So it is not that bad to not ejaculate that power. Women do only sh!t with power anyways.
 

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The person, male or female, who wants sex the least will more than likely control the relationship. And the less a man wants sex from his female partner, the more she wants it from him.
Not always true. That's why I always say that you can't next a girl you never slept with. Sure the guy can want sex the least, but if the woman doesn't want sex, both parties are friendzoned= female still wins, thus making this point moot. You can't just say don't want sex from any woman and then a Victoria's Secret angel will bang you 2 weeks later.

Women love sex with attractive males, and the fact that every male isn't attractive doesn't help. Any other guy is a source of attention and validation. Men win when there's sex. Women win when there's desire for her, she gets attention, etc.

Also, nothing makes a woman horny like a desirable male desiring her. Woman likes guy, guy makes sexual advances, Win-win!

Another thing, when men have sex, it's about pleasure. When women have sex, it's about getting something from the guy i.e. resources, status, money. Hardly ever about pleasure.

That's why so many women are attention seekers, not sex seekers like we are.

Case closed.
 

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I doubt that women want sex as much as men do (that would be quite a feat), but they definitely want it. The idea that women only use sex to get our attention, or manipulate or pacify us, is incorrect, IMO.
 

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Homones are about a balance. It's different with every woman. A girl I'm seeing now said to me, "About 5-7 days out of the month I am a total sex addict...I can't get enough....that must be what it's like all the time if you're a man, right?"
 

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Women know the sweet spot in controlling men is through sex. They can make any man believe he's a porn star in bed and the male ego plays right into this trap. I've never heard a guy say he was bad in bed or be self deprecating about anything concerning sex. Believing women want sex just as much as we do is just another tool in their box. You'll be thinking "Wow, they want it just like we do so if I'm not getting it when I want it, I need to work TWICE as hard!!!"

Some women want it more than others but they'll never know how the sex drive of a man feels unless they pump themselves full of male hormones. I actually remember reading an anecdote of a woman who did inject herself and how her sex drive went through the roof. Thing is, our drive is meant to push us to accomplish things which generally results in sex.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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