"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women want POWER not a deep connection

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Most men have been swindled by women into believing women value deep relationships with authentic bonds.

Sure.. women want love, but only in one direction--> A quality man who loves her.

Women want to be loved more than they want to love others. Burn that into your brain guys. Its the most important thing to know about women. AGAIN: Women want to be loved more than they want to love others.

They want love from men because of the power it brings... not for the sentimentality of it. A man in love is a slave. Completely ruled by his woman. This is a strong position for a woman. Women only fear losing power over a man to another woman. This is why they seek a man who is difficult to seduce. This way.. once seduced.. he is totally under HER control and only HER control. :yes:

The man who falls fast will be easy for another woman to steal down the road.

Most men don't understand this and truly believe its beneficial for them to get into deep long-term relationships or marriages. They don't realize these actions strip them of all their personal money and power. Once engaged in these situations.. the man works for the woman's happiness rather than his own. Even worse --> He is too delusional to notice it because the woman has manipulated him into adopting her values and needs as his own. :crackup: :crackup:

Men can only maintain power by spinning plates and keeping one foot out the door of the relationship at all times. Women will see you as a hard man to catch and thus.. a man worth catching since most women have failed. You must, must, must keep one foot out the door. The minute you are ALL in.. you have lost.

Any man who thinks this is "cynical" has already been deeply manipulated by feminine values and white knight thinking.

Just some food for thought to help you maintain an alpha frame. :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good Post player man.

I wish I could better live your advice.

But theirs always that part of me that has a little "Hope" for a girl that's worth while.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
...Women only fear losing power over a man to another woman...
No, women fear not being loved enough...or losing a man's love.

You can still have a long term relationship with a woman.

Just love something else MORE than you love her.
 

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Men value love, and women love value.

More proof given here, and explained well!
 

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So Basically women ain't sh*t? I wonder what women really think of men
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PeasantPlayer said:
So Basically women ain't sh*t? I wonder what women really think of men
He just told you what women think of men
 

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But I want to know.....do most of you believe this to be true?
 

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Women want both. In my experience if you can juggle power first, then you can form a deep connection with her and establish something powerful together. But yes, you want to have that sense of power - whether it be in wealth, social status, ability, drive, ambition, or talent. You can't have one without the other. Good post man.
 
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I believe its true for good lookin girls. Coz i experienced it myself several times. the girl was only interested as long as i didnt show much interest back, the more i backed off the more she showed interest, when I went all in she backed off, so always keep the game up untill you make a move like kissing or having sex then u give more of yourself when she does!
 

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First of all good insight PHM.
I Agree with you about Love thing

About the POWER thing it depends on many things but the most important thing is how much you embrace your manhood/masculinity/virility ....because whatever you heard in this site or in any other place it's going to be always MASCULINITY Attract FEMININITY and vice-verca so it's depends on the persentage of masculinity and femininity in you (Personality/Body language/ Actions / Desitions and so on)

and it's going to be always Masculinity Leads and Femininity Follow but you need to believe it and live it too to undersand it

About CONNECTION is an important thing in Long Term Relationships but only IMPORTANT with QUALITY WOMAN (that's right Quality women Exist) so if you are a Quality man (and by quality i don't mean Player/Alpha/Jerk I mean Real Man who Embrace his Manhood and have the descipline to control his Emotions and Desires and follow his dreams and passions) but in ONS and with The Trash/Pump&Dump Type of women it's worthless and it will work against you in the long run because it can't be any type of harmony between Quality and Trash .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I like it, but why focus of women? Everyone wants to be loved because of the power it brings. Men are the same way.

No one wants to let others know they need anything. Everyone wants the world to love them, feel important, be recognized, feel special.

To say its just women is a little narrow.
 

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Men can only maintain power by spinning plates and keeping one foot out the door of the relationship at all times. Women will see you as a hard man to catch and thus.. a man worth catching since most women have failed. You must, must, must keep one foot out the door. The minute you are ALL in.. you have lost.
I disagree. A man can still get into deep relationships without loosing his power. As long as you put your life first, (hobbies, goals, career etc.) then you're good. Its the man that completely devotes his life to his woman, sacrificing all his wants and needs for her, who's destined to fail. I'd rather become celibate than have to spin plates for the rest of my life.
 

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JoeMarron said:
I disagree. A man can still get into deep relationships without loosing his power. As long as you put your life first, (hobbies, goals, career etc.) then you're good. Its the man that completely devotes his life to his woman, sacrificing all his wants and needs for her, who's destined to fail. I'd rather become celibate than have to spin plates for the rest of my life.

Exactly. Agree 110%. There's far too many KJing mental masturbators on this site.
 

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@ JoeMarron

This is basically what I already mentioned.

3agle 3yes said:
No, women fear not being loved enough...or losing a man's love.

You can still have a long term relationship with a woman.

Just love something else MORE than you love her.
 

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Trump said:
I like it, but why focus of women? Everyone wants to be loved because of the power it brings. Men are the same way.

No one wants to let others know they need anything. Everyone wants the world to love them, feel important, be recognized, feel special.

To say its just women is a little narrow.
But why are we all here bro? Are any of us interested in dating men? I think the answer is NO.

So why point out how "men are the same way"? Who gives a sh!t how man are?.. We don't date men!!! :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Some deep seeded issues

If you think that all that women want is power in a relationship or to head f*ck you, you have some serious issues.

Women (and men...hey there is NOT that big of a difference), want to find a partner who respects and loves them. Its actually THAT simple.
 

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JoeMarron said:
I disagree. A man can still get into deep relationships without loosing his power. As long as you put your life first, (hobbies, goals, career etc.) then you're good. Its the man that completely devotes his life to his woman, sacrificing all his wants and needs for her, who's destined to fail. I'd rather become celibate than have to spin plates for the rest of my life.
Exactly.
And add 'friends' to the list. So many guys I see neglecting their friends, specially on their first LTR.
 

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Wakeupplease said:
If you think that all that women want is power in a relationship or to head f*ck you, you have some serious issues.

Women (and men...hey there is NOT that big of a difference), want to find a partner who respects and loves them. Its actually THAT simple.
Wrong.

Get out of your Disney movie / chick flick bubble for a minute and try to learn something. :up:
 

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Not that I don't trust you or anything but on what evidence are you basing these claims on?

Just so I know that I can trust that what you say is good.
 

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Didnt read the replies but just the main post so here's my question:

So is being single a lot better than being in relationship? Shall we just flirt even though we know it wouldnt bring sex to you? Especially when you live in a city where you dont see much hotties and you have to be in a relationship to get even a kiss?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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