jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
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Women want emotionally avaiable men!
Look... Look how those influencers are making up men mind all over the world.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Women want emotionally avaiable men
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From minute 25:00 to 25:30
Women want emotionally avaiable men!
Look... Look how those influencers are making up men mind all over the world.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BaronOfHair
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We all mourn the days where we spoke in specifics, such as "I want my SO to be more physically affectionate, and spend less time reminding me of all the ways I ruined their life", instead of invoking pop-psycholgy gibberish like "emotionally available"
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
I am incredibly emotional reactive, by this I mean that If someone cry at a funeral, I could possibly mirror.
It Is Easy For Most Women To Move On
I thought this was kind of accurate. In the long-run, men tend to agonize over ended relationships for much longer and it's a lot easier for women to move on, generally. On a purely biological war widow mentality basis the woman is the vulnerable individual that has to make herself instantly...
I try to resist but It's hard for me.
But If a woman cry like you said, other than putting an arm on her, I'll also possibly cry for a moment.