backseatjuan
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I thought yesterday it was an isolated incident. Then I saw just today same exact pocture. A woman wearing a night gown, long silky bellow the knee, no bra. Must be rona starvation.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Women walking in the street in night gowns
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"Tolstoy"?
My bad i thought night gown is something like this
Focal core
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Good lord
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
For a disney princess
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Leo Tolstoy Quotes (Author of Anna Karenina)
6062 quotes from Leo Tolstoy: 'Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.', 'All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.', and 'If you look for perfection, you'll never be content.'
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Damn this guy was smart
"It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness"
backseatjuan
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Kinda like this, both were black, no bra, plus minus lenth- https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT8upOYDVz3LQMoNLYb0oYtIKsBZQpbeHwJxRLd3EwH&s
Mike32ct
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Walk of shame?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Focal core
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A looney?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Real beauty isn't darkness. But most of what attracts men is. Ladies learn their angles and looks to attract men. They attract you in general not to make life easier. They'll respect you more if you don't fall for it.
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