"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women thinks I insulted her with C&F Line. What do I do?

DJnoob

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Canadian Catnip said:
I was talking to this women I know the other day when I dropped a C&F line on her and she thought I was the rudest person in the world.

I asked two friends about the comment and one said I was rude and the other said it was a funny joke.

So I'll let the people here decide for me if I was rude or just C&F.

Her: Hi how is it going?
Me: Fine, and you"
Her: Good, I think I took my cell phone with me today but I can't find it.
Her: I tried calling my cell from another phone and I could swear I could hear it ringing. Then I tried again to call it a few minutes later and I could not hear it. I trying to track it down.
Me: That sounds like a good way to track down your phone. So you still have not found it?
Her: No, but maybe it's like Pavlov's dog and I'm just imagining the phone ringing.
Me: So when you hear this ringing does it make you salivate?

After that she gave me the look as if I just insulted her in the worst way ever.

I was confused, I left her and asked a friend the next day and he said I called her a salivating dog, my other friend said it was a funny line and perhaps she did not know much about Pavlov's dog.

Can anyone tell me if I insulted her or if she just did not get the joke?

Nice!! seriously, i applaud you for that! You didnt insult her, don't be afraid. She's just stuck up and didnt know how to make a good comeback. You told this broad!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ease

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Dude it was a funny joke

Dont cave into her silly manipulation.
 

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Depends

If someone whom I was not exactly very frank with... or you know... was on a more formal terms with... I'd feel a bit shocked, at first.
 

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mimi said:
If someone whom I was not exactly very frank with... or you know... was on a more formal terms with... I'd feel a bit shocked, at first.
Then you have no sense of humor.
 

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That was clever and funny.

Let her be, most likely aunt flow over stayed her welcome.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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