"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women then and now...find the differences

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mostly white. All of them looking around and not at a phone. None of them having acid thrown in their face.
And as a side note, the Union Jack being proudly flown! That was when it was ok to be white and to be proud of our culture.
 

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That was when humans had a bodyweight and shape according to health rather than fast food, instagramn and tatoos actually.
 

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I was going to say a lot more skirts and dresses.

As an old bast@rd, I love comparing cultural differences in different times like this, especially when I can remember them.
 

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I swear Austin Powers was going to pop up at the 1:04 mark.

Yeah baby....:cool:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Haha, I follow that dudes channel. Interesting to see how things were in the early-mid 1900's.
 

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67 the pollution of the female mind just begun.. last generation of husbands married to humans.

Yes they look respectly dressed and good shape over all

These men did not see the isberg comming
 

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It's tough to spot the older people in '67. They don't really stand out from the crowd of younger people. They're tall and thin and have clear complexions. Today, old people look like Jabba the hut. Giant guts sticking out, waddling instead of walking, a stack of chins, mottled skin. They barely look human these days.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That girl in the third picture with the pink fuzzy hat is not very attractive.

It's tough to spot the older people in '67. They don't really stand out from the crowd of younger people. They're tall and thin and have clear complexions. Today, old people look like Jabba the hut. Giant guts sticking out, waddling instead of walking, a stack of chins, mottled skin. They barely look human these days.
You'll have that. But the funny thing is, my recollection is that older people looked older back then.

The other side of the coin of the obesity epidemic is that people are living longer, athletes are playing longer, people are more educated about nutrition, the fit people are more fit than ever, the number of people who smoke has decreased dramatically, there are more gyms and fitness centers in business, etc. "40 is the new 30", "50 is the new 40". The people who want to take care of themselves now have more education and resources available to them than ever before.
 

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Just look at how hot the girls are here. This is 78. Fresh faced,healthy looking. Not skinny or fat. No orange tans or drawn on eyebrows. Not a tattoo in sight. Women were so beautiful back then.
Notice how childlike everyone is in their enjoyment when the second half of the song kicks off. Just complete abandonment. No posing. No selfies. God I wish I had been around back then...
 

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Just look at how hot the girls are here. This is 78. Fresh faced,healthy looking. Not skinny or fat. No orange tans or drawn on eyebrows. Not a tattoo in sight. Women were so beautiful back then.
I'm with you on the tattoos there, brother.
 
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