"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women then and now...find the differences

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mostly white. All of them looking around and not at a phone. None of them having acid thrown in their face.
And as a side note, the Union Jack being proudly flown! That was when it was ok to be white and to be proud of our culture.
 

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That was when humans had a bodyweight and shape according to health rather than fast food, instagramn and tatoos actually.
 

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I was going to say a lot more skirts and dresses.

As an old bast@rd, I love comparing cultural differences in different times like this, especially when I can remember them.
 

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I swear Austin Powers was going to pop up at the 1:04 mark.

Yeah baby....:cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Haha, I follow that dudes channel. Interesting to see how things were in the early-mid 1900's.
 

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67 the pollution of the female mind just begun.. last generation of husbands married to humans.

Yes they look respectly dressed and good shape over all

These men did not see the isberg comming
 

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It's tough to spot the older people in '67. They don't really stand out from the crowd of younger people. They're tall and thin and have clear complexions. Today, old people look like Jabba the hut. Giant guts sticking out, waddling instead of walking, a stack of chins, mottled skin. They barely look human these days.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That girl in the third picture with the pink fuzzy hat is not very attractive.

It's tough to spot the older people in '67. They don't really stand out from the crowd of younger people. They're tall and thin and have clear complexions. Today, old people look like Jabba the hut. Giant guts sticking out, waddling instead of walking, a stack of chins, mottled skin. They barely look human these days.
You'll have that. But the funny thing is, my recollection is that older people looked older back then.

The other side of the coin of the obesity epidemic is that people are living longer, athletes are playing longer, people are more educated about nutrition, the fit people are more fit than ever, the number of people who smoke has decreased dramatically, there are more gyms and fitness centers in business, etc. "40 is the new 30", "50 is the new 40". The people who want to take care of themselves now have more education and resources available to them than ever before.
 

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Just look at how hot the girls are here. This is 78. Fresh faced,healthy looking. Not skinny or fat. No orange tans or drawn on eyebrows. Not a tattoo in sight. Women were so beautiful back then.
Notice how childlike everyone is in their enjoyment when the second half of the song kicks off. Just complete abandonment. No posing. No selfies. God I wish I had been around back then...
 

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Just look at how hot the girls are here. This is 78. Fresh faced,healthy looking. Not skinny or fat. No orange tans or drawn on eyebrows. Not a tattoo in sight. Women were so beautiful back then.
I'm with you on the tattoos there, brother.
 
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