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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women that don't get excited when they should

ZhaoYun

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Has anyone ever had plates/girlfriends/wives/etc that don't seemed excited about certain things to YOU when they should be?

For example, one of my plates is going to California for spring break. I tell her how that's awesome and she should hook up with the bloods and pull a heist (sarcastic) and she acts like she's not excited at all about it. Claims the flight will be too long, etc...

Another woman I know is leaving the freakin country going to a place she's never been. Same result when she's speaking to me talking about how she's tired and the drive to another state to catch a flight will be long. Also said how she thinks the flight may be boring etc..

Why do women do this? If it's with their girlfriends or something they're all excited but when talking to me about it they act depressed. Like they don't want to leave or something. I don't get it.

Anyone else ever get this?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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1. What do you care about it? Some women will act like it, until they get there and it will all change. Perhaps they don't like change.

2. Maybe they are downplaying it for you, but actually they are excited, they just don't want you to know it.

Either way, act indifferent. It shouldn't really matter. She does then she does, if no then that's cool too.
 

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AGB said it. They are downplaying their excitment. They are trying to make you feel more comfortable about going out of town.

Why you might ask? That's a good question. They know it's party time once they are away from daddy. They just don't want you to think they think it's party time. Make sense?
 

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^^ I get what you're saying but what's the point of them downplaying their excitement? I mean ..I haven't even fvcked these girls yet so why be fake?

Also, these aren't the only two I've noticed that pull this shyt. I've seen it many other times I'm just trying to figure out what the point of it is.

Yeah I'm usually indifferent about most things unless it's something that intrigues me. This kind of stuff doesn't really bother me just trying to figure out if there's some kind of hidden agenda for it.
 

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"I get what you're saying but what's the point of them downplaying their excitement? I mean ..I haven't even fvcked these girls yet so why be fake?"

Good luck trying to figure that out. Actually don't try to.

Who knows, just like Doc said, I'ts party time for them. Maybe she wants to get a reaction out of you.

Be indifferent.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuan11

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ZhaoYun said:
Has anyone ever had plates/girlfriends/wives/etc that don't seemed excited about certain things to YOU when they should be?

For example, one of my plates is going to California for spring break. I tell her how that's awesome and she should hook up with the bloods and pull a heist (sarcastic) and she acts like she's not excited at all about it. Claims the flight will be too long, etc...

Another woman I know is leaving the freakin country going to a place she's never been. Same result when she's speaking to me talking about how she's tired and the drive to another state to catch a flight will be long. Also said how she thinks the flight may be boring etc..

Why do women do this? If it's with their girlfriends or something they're all excited but when talking to me about it they act depressed. Like they don't want to leave or something. I don't get it.
LOL. Just because you like something doesn't mean they should.

ZhaoYun: "That's awesome you're going to California, you should pull a heist."
HB: "You're right, I love you, lets sleep together right now."
 

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In both of those examples, ZhaoYun, it's simply ASD. Women going on spring break or out of the country to a strange place are gonna get some holiday c0cks and if they're interested in you at all, they will hold back their excitement for fear of you judging them as a slvt.
 
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