"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women That Dont Answer Phone Calls

slickaz

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This is just a piece of advice for all you guys with girlfriends out there.

The Situation:
Im at work, talking to a female colleague over coffee at her desk.
We are supposed to be doing work, but she got back from overseas from some work, and so did i. so good time to catch up.

Anyway at the tail end of our conversation, her phone starts ringing.
its her boyfriend.
Now she looks at the phone, tells me its her boyfriend who shes been dating for 8 months.
and does not answer the phone.
i ask her, why dont you answer, she goes nah,its cool ill just tell him i was busy at work. he can wait.

The Outcome:
How many times have i called a chic that was a plate to set up a date or whatever, and i get the voicemail after the 6 or 8 rings!
and so easily, their answers were, Oh i was busy at work, sorry.


Dont fall for this, this is perfect example of how well women can lie.
I dont know why but it just pissed me off when she said that.
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Darth

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That ticks me off too. I'm not falling for that again.
 

Jitterbug

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slickaz said:
I dont know why but it just pissed me off when she said that.
I think it's the blatant lack of respect she shows to her man right in front of a third party that pisses you off.

When the respect & IL are high, they're terrified of missing your calls.

Personally I don't care what reason she has for not picking up the phone. If she doesn't call me back afterwards, that reason is bullsh!t.
 

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Jitterbug said:
I think it's the blatant lack of respect she shows to her man right in front of a third party that pisses you off.

When the respect & IL are high, they're terrified of missing your calls.

Personally I don't care what reason she has for not picking up the phone. If she doesn't call me back afterwards, that reason is bullsh!t.
Spot on. Women who don't pickup your calls are just 'not that into you'.

That looks like the cheesiest f*cking movie by the way.
 

J Roc

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i dont see nothing wrong with it. maybe here boyfriend is the type of guy that likes to call her during the day with bullsh1t idle chatter. I hate when females call me during the day when I'm at work to talk about nothing. if the message is important than he will leave a voice message otherwise she will just call him later on or see him in person after work.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm agreeing with J Roc here. If you're at work, then you work. You don't sit on the phone and chat with your boyfriend when I am paying you! I'd FIRE you lazy ass!

You're personal calls are for your peraonal time, lunch or breaks.
 

DonGorgon

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if brad pitt calls she will answer or call back as soon as she sees that he called.... notice that she looked at her phone to see who it was. at this point her boyfriend is not that important...
 

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well not just that,
i know this woman, and she's constantly on the phone to her girlfriends or other guys.
so this was no reason for her not to answer his call.
being her boyfriend.
also, she wasnt doing work, she was sitting chatting to me about her visit overseas for work.

but anyway i just find it disrespectful and i hope i never have that done to me.

i dont usually call alot, one every 2 or 3 days is my max as im usually busy with work or overseas.

but when i do call i expect the phone to be answered, and if not a valid reason.
but then again, thats why i dont do exclusive relationships.
 

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slickaz said:
well not just that,
i know this woman, and she's constantly on the phone to her girlfriends or other guys.
so this was no reason for her not to answer his call.
being her boyfriend.
also, she wasnt doing work, she was sitting chatting to me about her visit overseas for work.

but anyway i just find it disrespectful and i hope i never have that done to me.

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Her casual attitude says that she regards her boyfriend as "in the bag". Her relationship with him is no longer a 'priority' for her.
SHe is demonstrating complacency towards her relationship and an attitude of "entitlement' ..she feels entitled to treat him like as if her were just an option in her life.

If I call my woman at her place of work, and she cannot pickup, I expect her to call me back and gently APOLOGISE and offer an explanation. I never call without valid reason and she knows that.

IF my current LTR did not return my call on the day that it was made, we would be having a small talk about respect in the next few days..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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