Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You know what, that might actually work. I can count the number of times I've given a girl a compliment on one hand as I've never seen the point in giving them seeing as so many other guys will kiss their arses for them. No need for me to tell them they're good looking when social media and other guys do it for them. But I'll give it a try and comment here with the results.TheGambino said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You know what, that might actually work. I can count the number of times I've given a girl a compliment on one hand as I've never seen the point in giving them seeing as so many other guys will kiss their arses for them. No need for me to tell them they're good looking when social media and other guys do it for them. But I'll give it a try and comment here with the results.TheGambino said:
