"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi all,

Here's the deal. I have a great look, almost all girls say me this. Sincerely, the mirror says it too. I'm having a problem in this girl. She lives next my house. I always didn't have any problem getting girls, I make an approach and they approach me also in the same coin. But, I know she liked me once but I was not giving a piece of shi* in that time. However, now, I want to have something with her.

One days, she's playing me, kicking my ass and etc., flirting. I sent one SMS message telling her to have a movie. She wrote that she'll see. 2 weeks after, I got a sms from her, telling that a movie would be OK. I didn't have time to go out in that week. So the movie idea dissapeared...

Now, I said in one SMS that she completely forgot about the movie, she didn't touch it and told me other things. One days, she's so IN, other days, I can't see in SMS that she is into me. You know, I go, ''you dance so well..one day you must dance for me1'', she replied, ''don't know...for you? (put a smile here)''. You know...she always teases me in conversations..

What attitude shoul I behave? Should I give her a little scorning? Because this is f*king me off..:cuss:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Too much time and effort for no payoff. NEXT...
 

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You seem to be pretty worked up over getting this one chick. If you got amazing looks, you should focus more on other girls and let this one go, it seems like her interest level is pretty low or she'd be putting more of an effort out there to see you. Maybe she has a boyfriend.

You might want to try a more sexual approach to peek her interests. Send her an SMS saying, "Do you like horseback riding?" then your next SMS is "How would you like to ride a stallion?"

That one actually worked for me.
 

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Thanks both for your opinions.

You seem to be pretty worked up over getting this one chick. If you got amazing looks, you should focus more on other girls and let this one go, it seems like her interest level is pretty low or she'd be putting more of an effort out there to see you. Maybe she has a boyfriend.
Yeah, but this girl is making me ''problems''. I want to get her. She doesn't have a boyfriend. One day at school, she took a small top, and I asked, ''Oh cmon...whats all that?'' (pointing to her boobs), and she got, ''it's for you''. You know, but she isn't this way all days. She teases me. I tease her also. But I'm getting bored about all this, I want to get action, you know.

Maybe I could be more direct, but being rejected by this girl..rssss..if she was wow...that's why I'm playing it indirectly. I wouldnt go for movie subject again...

Hmm...about the sms. I guess I'm not using it for now but thanks.
 
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