"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi all,

Here's the deal. I have a great look, almost all girls say me this. Sincerely, the mirror says it too. I'm having a problem in this girl. She lives next my house. I always didn't have any problem getting girls, I make an approach and they approach me also in the same coin. But, I know she liked me once but I was not giving a piece of shi* in that time. However, now, I want to have something with her.

One days, she's playing me, kicking my ass and etc., flirting. I sent one SMS message telling her to have a movie. She wrote that she'll see. 2 weeks after, I got a sms from her, telling that a movie would be OK. I didn't have time to go out in that week. So the movie idea dissapeared...

Now, I said in one SMS that she completely forgot about the movie, she didn't touch it and told me other things. One days, she's so IN, other days, I can't see in SMS that she is into me. You know, I go, ''you dance so well..one day you must dance for me1'', she replied, ''don't know...for you? (put a smile here)''. You know...she always teases me in conversations..

What attitude shoul I behave? Should I give her a little scorning? Because this is f*king me off..:cuss:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Too much time and effort for no payoff. NEXT...
 
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You seem to be pretty worked up over getting this one chick. If you got amazing looks, you should focus more on other girls and let this one go, it seems like her interest level is pretty low or she'd be putting more of an effort out there to see you. Maybe she has a boyfriend.

You might want to try a more sexual approach to peek her interests. Send her an SMS saying, "Do you like horseback riding?" then your next SMS is "How would you like to ride a stallion?"

That one actually worked for me.
 
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Thanks both for your opinions.

You seem to be pretty worked up over getting this one chick. If you got amazing looks, you should focus more on other girls and let this one go, it seems like her interest level is pretty low or she'd be putting more of an effort out there to see you. Maybe she has a boyfriend.
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Yeah, but this girl is making me ''problems''. I want to get her. She doesn't have a boyfriend. One day at school, she took a small top, and I asked, ''Oh cmon...whats all that?'' (pointing to her boobs), and she got, ''it's for you''. You know, but she isn't this way all days. She teases me. I tease her also. But I'm getting bored about all this, I want to get action, you know.

Maybe I could be more direct, but being rejected by this girl..rssss..if she was wow...that's why I'm playing it indirectly. I wouldnt go for movie subject again...

Hmm...about the sms. I guess I'm not using it for now but thanks.
 
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