Women talk too much

[Joji]

So last week I asked the girl I wanted to go to prom with to prom, I waited so long to ask her because I was nervous to do it. But I did, last week at that, she declined.

I didn't get mad, there's no need to be. But come back to school the next week and rumor has it that I got turned down by her. And another girl cause I did ask another girl jokingly (just to gauge her response wasn't concerned if she was going to decline me or not.) And apparently they're saying that I asked on the same day which I didn't.

Like really? Wtf... -sighs-

Moral of the story girls gossip way too god damn much.

How should I make advances now that most people know about this?

 

[TheProspect]

Get "Prom?" printed on a t-shirt and own it lol


You already got all the advice you need on how to handle teenage gossip and drama on your other thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-gold-nugget-did-you-wish-youd-known-at-17.243969/

Apply some of it.

 

[Mike32ct]

Honestly, just let it go. Don’t worry about it.

It was a risk that you had to take. If you want a prom date, you obviously have to ask. And whether she says yes or no, she WILL tell her friends. (It’s the whole “nobody can keep a secret” theory I mentioned before.) But you don’t control what they say after you ask somebody out, so don’t worry about it.

If anybody tries to grill you on this, and they likely WILL, play dumb.

Gossiper: “Didn’t you ask so and so to the prom?”

You: “I don’t know what you’re talking about.” <Repeat this phrase as often as you need to and until the gossiper backs off. It doesn’t matter if they believe you or not.>

You did nothing wrong, but DON’T admit it because then you are feeding the gossip beast and opening the door to a bunch of other personal questions about which girls you like. It’s none of their business.

I don’t know how soon your prom is, or whether there is still enough time to ask another chick. That part is up to you.

 

[RangerMIke]

Chicks dig validation. Getting asked out is validation. Take it as a complement that she is telling her friends, if she thought you were a loser she wouldn't tell anyone.

If another chick asks you about this, but tell her "What, are you asking me to the prom?" If it's a guy, just say "Thanks, but I dig chicks."

Anytime someone asks you a difficult question or something you just don;t want to deal with, just act like it is some-kind of come on, then see what happens.

Chick: "I hear you asked out XYZ to the prom and she turned you down."
You: "What... are you interest in going with me... I don't know... you look like you might be fun."

 

[Joji]

Honestly, just let it go. Don’t worry about it.

It was a risk that you had to take. If you want a prom date, you obviously have to ask. And whether she says yes or no, she WILL tell her friends. (It’s the whole “nobody can keep a secret” theory I mentioned before.) But you don’t control what they say after you ask somebody out, so don’t worry about it.

If anybody tries to grill you on this, and they likely WILL, play dumb.

Gossiper: “Didn’t you ask so and so to the prom?”

You: “I don’t know what you’re talking about.” <Repeat this phrase as often as you need to and until the gossiper backs off. It doesn’t matter if they believe you or not.>

You did nothing wrong, but DON’T admit it because then you are feeding the gossip beast and opening the door to a bunch of other personal questions about which girls you like. It’s none of their business.

I don’t know how soon your prom is, or whether there is still enough time to ask another chick. That part is up to you.

Yeah funny enough I read that thread. Thoroughly. Thanks though and I'm not mad at all about it. No need to be

 

[Joji]

Honestly, just let it go. Don’t worry about it.

It was a risk that you had to take. If you want a prom date, you obviously have to ask. And whether she says yes or no, she WILL tell her friends. (It’s the whole “nobody can keep a secret” theory I mentioned before.) But you don’t control what they say after you ask somebody out, so don’t worry about it.

If anybody tries to grill you on this, and they likely WILL, play dumb.

Gossiper: “Didn’t you ask so and so to the prom?”

You: “I don’t know what you’re talking about.” <Repeat this phrase as often as you need to and until the gossiper backs off. It doesn’t matter if they believe you or not.>

You did nothing wrong, but DON’T admit it because then you are feeding the gossip beast and opening the door to a bunch of other personal questions about which girls you like. It’s none of their business.

I don’t know how soon your prom is, or whether there is still enough time to ask another chick. That part is up to you.

And I have a bunch of time until prom. I'm planning on going in the whip.

 

[Joji]

Get "Prom?" printed on a t-shirt and own it lol


You already got all the advice you need on how to handle teenage gossip and drama on your other thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-gold-nugget-did-you-wish-youd-known-at-17.243969/

Apply some of it.

Ironic enough, I was thinking of buying this cool shirt that reads
"smile at me if I've got a chance" but feel like that's desperation lol. Should I get it?

 

[John Constantine]

Ironic enough, I was thinking of buying this cool shirt that reads
"smile at me if I've got a chance" but feel like that's desperation lol. Should I get it?

Dude this is my type of humor but I tell you the majority of people would find that creepy and nerdy..
I like the Prom idea about the t shirt.. I have an idea

Why not playing a game with the next one, you wear a custom t shirt with Congratulations, you're going to prom with me under a hoodie or something like that
and you ask the girl to guess the colour of your shirt under it. She has 3 chances and if she doesnt find it, she has to accept one of your request.. Obviously you wear a colour like brown so she doesnt find it. AND then you take your hoodie off and bang you are the baddest DJ's of high school. Trust me chicks in high schools are gonna love this type of thing if you're not doing it awkwardly.

It's just an idea, something I would definetely do, with a nice attitude you could get a very cute girl

 

[dude99]

So last week I asked the girl I wanted to go to prom with to prom, I waited so long to ask her because I was nervous to do it. But I did, last week at that, she declined.

I didn't get mad, there's no need to be. But come back to school the next week and rumor has it that I got turned down by her. And another girl cause I did ask another girl jokingly (just to gauge her response wasn't concerned if she was going to decline me or not.) And apparently they're saying that I asked on the same day which I didn't.

Like really? Wtf... -sighs-

Moral of the story girls gossip way too god damn much.

How should I make advances now that most people know about this?

They do. And the number of fűcks you should give should be zero.

 

[TheProspect]

Ironic enough, I was thinking of buying this cool shirt that reads
"smile at me if I've got a chance" but feel like that's desperation lol. Should I get it?

How about one that says "smile at me if you think YOU have a chance"