"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If a woman wants to be chased that much is she really worth it? At a certain point shes making you focus on her and not your career or your hobbies. These guys that chase these women and finally get them are the ones in marriage where they say that they basically "work" and teh rest of their free time is taken up by their wives cause they're put up on that high of a pedestal.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CMNILS87 said:
If a woman wants to be chased that much is she really worth it? At a certain point shes making you focus on her and not your career or your hobbies. These guys that chase these women and finally get them are the ones in marriage where they say that they basically "work" and teh rest of their free time is taken up by their wives cause they're put up on that high of a pedestal.
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Agree.

Society has trained the beta man to offer women as much as possible to "win them over". The alpha mindset is to offer women as little as possible while spinning plates. Let the worthy women prove themselves before they can extract significant resources from you. This is the challenge all women crave.. to beat out other women for a top man.

Most men are too desperate and thirsty to go down this road.. hence the reason men who do it are so much more attractive. A thirsty beta is a dime a dozen. These faggots are everywhere. If you think chasing a woman hard makes you "stand out".. think again.
 
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Tictac said:
In your earlier post, you acknowledged being a 'newbie'. There is a ton of stuff here that you can read and learn from. So the DJ Bible is good, if long and sometimes disjointed. On the web, there are plenty of vendors that will relieve you of as much as your money as you're willing to part with on the subject of women and relationships.

Not that I think he's the be-all, end-all, I think that you should get Corey Wayne's book "How to Be a 3% Man" and read it a few times. I don't agree with some of what he writes, nobody likely does. But it's a cogent, focused piece on dating and relationships. It may help you to get grounded.
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I like how he isn't all about just banging and throwing away women. I like how he advocated finding a good healthy relationship , if that is what you're looking for. Also, I like how he doesnt bull**** you with PUA tactics and tells you to improve yourself (like this forum). He's not bad at all. The book rambles on though, it's 240 pages or so.
 
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