backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i don't care how sexist that statement is. they are horrible business people and are way too emotional to constantly make rational decisions.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
women should not be allowed to run a business
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
Very interesting observation. I will tell you one thing, in one particular line of work I was involved in they were also some of the laziest too!!! Please do not think I am stereotyping them ALL as lazy. Since everyone has a cell phone, many people, men included, are busy playing on it instead of working.
BB, I am sure some will say how about the Oprahs and the Martha Stewarts and blah, blah... I say and so?
BB, I am sure some will say how about the Oprahs and the Martha Stewarts and blah, blah... I say and so?
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
mind you i don't even do this anymore really, I just collect my check from the guy I leased it to. But the woman called me specifally because she was reffered to me by someone. I said okay, i will take care of the project for you. We send her the first design revision, she refuses to provide feeback, intstead, she goes on a tagent on how she knew she should have hired someone around town. I put her in her place in a professional way, telling her, look, that's unprofessional, and this is a process, fyou ahve to provide feedback.. i need to know what your site has to look like, what other sites do you like and what do you like about them. She says, i can't do that becuase i want my site to be unique, i don't want it to look like anything else. I say as you wish but I've been at this a while and if you want the work that's in my portfolio, you have to follow my process. if you don't, i can't assure you the quality of work that comes out.
So i send her a completely new design which isn't bad actually, I kinda like it.
http://black17media.com/dfd.png
it's kinda cute. lol, she is now demanding a refund stating that I have not sent her the new design and I'm unprofessional. I said yes, I did send it. So I send it again. Still nothing.. she is saying that she has gotten every email that I have sent her, but I keep telling her that I am going to send her an update with the new design, which I sent yesterday for her, twice, but I won't send to her, all while responding ot every other email I send, but conveniently, she can't find the email i sent to her with the design update in it, despite me sending not only the design but a print screen showing that I sent the emails and that she got them.
NO she's just now pissy becuase.. hell i don't even know and she doesn't even know. **** women in business
So i send her a completely new design which isn't bad actually, I kinda like it.
http://black17media.com/dfd.png
it's kinda cute. lol, she is now demanding a refund stating that I have not sent her the new design and I'm unprofessional. I said yes, I did send it. So I send it again. Still nothing.. she is saying that she has gotten every email that I have sent her, but I keep telling her that I am going to send her an update with the new design, which I sent yesterday for her, twice, but I won't send to her, all while responding ot every other email I send, but conveniently, she can't find the email i sent to her with the design update in it, despite me sending not only the design but a print screen showing that I sent the emails and that she got them.
NO she's just now pissy becuase.. hell i don't even know and she doesn't even know. **** women in business
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Thanks. We have done much much much much better but it's clean and it's the type of site she wants, no reason for her to be acting the way she is, all becuase i refused to be talked down to, when I did nothing wrong in the first place. I called her on her **** and she got pissy. She shouldn't have come at me like that in the first place.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
fun sh!t.
We live in a free society where women are allowed to do as we do (sometimes too much). Things like vote, own property and own a business.
Now she may not be any good at it, but she has every right to fail and run her business into the ground like most other businesswomen.
This thread has too much whining... I mean estrogen.
Now she may not be any good at it, but she has every right to fail and run her business into the ground like most other businesswomen.
This thread has too much whining... I mean estrogen.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Very true, OP.
They are almost completely lacking in the ability to understand business (which is actually gamesmanship and pseodo-warfare according to accepted protocols).
I am continually astonished with their irrational, self-defeating behavior in my own business. But this should be no surprise. Birds must fly, fish must swim, and women must experience life through vacillating emotion. Very bad for business, indeed.
They are almost completely lacking in the ability to understand business (which is actually gamesmanship and pseodo-warfare according to accepted protocols).
I am continually astonished with their irrational, self-defeating behavior in my own business. But this should be no surprise. Birds must fly, fish must swim, and women must experience life through vacillating emotion. Very bad for business, indeed.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
highconscienceness
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backbreaker said:
So in a world's oldest profession you'd prefer a man?
ChalengeGuyFan
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Sadly, this is very, very true.
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A lot of the top women CEOs and business leaders have more testosterone than a lot of men.
Hillary Clinton is a good example. She's got bigger balls than most men.
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No disrespect though, as long as they earn what they have instead of receiving it by right.
Hillary Clinton is a good example. She's got bigger balls than most men.
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No disrespect though, as long as they earn what they have instead of receiving it by right.
englishman
Master Don Juan
I've had a business for about 15 years, and a lot of what I do is business to business.
Therefore I deal with a lot of women business owners.
In my experience a lot of them are really good to deal with, you get your fair share of b1tches, but then again there are a lot of guys who are d1cks.
Therefore I deal with a lot of women business owners.
In my experience a lot of them are really good to deal with, you get your fair share of b1tches, but then again there are a lot of guys who are d1cks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Got a call from Nova (my merchant) yesterday and told me that i had taken a stolen credit card and a charge back was filed. this *****, told the bank that it was an unauthorized transaction. which it wasn't. so now i have a chargeback on my account, first one in a year. she paid freaking 500 bucks if she would have just asked for it back I would have given it to her, I don't want clients money who don't like our work, it's freaking 500 dollars.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
she did .....look at your post number 4backbreaker said:
should have sent the money back and told the b!tch buy buybackbreaker said: