"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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carrot

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Why are women into shoes so much
some of them collect 30 to 50 pairs of shoes ??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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carrot said:
Why are women into shoes so much
some of them collect 30 to 50 pairs of shoes ??
It's because they tend to hate feet, and shoes make the part of their bodies they hate the most to look prettier.

Many studies have been done, asking women what body part they dislike the most, and the majority say it's their feet.

Keep in mind that one of the first things they notice about a man is his shoes. Sloppy shoes can easily turn a woman right off.
 

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Use this to your advantage.

Say "Hey nice shoes, but they don't match your dress"

Watch what happens then
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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donjuanapprentice01 said:
Use this to your advantage.
Say "Hey nice shoes, but they don't match your dress"
Watch what happens then
 

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A simple "Nice shoes!" works well, too. Wait until you see a high in very high heels. That is how women "peacock." When you compliment them, you are really telling them that you notice that they like attention and you'd enjoy providing them with some.
 

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You can use that to your advantage. Women collect shoes like Pokemon.

Use neg hits regarding them. That "nice shoes" line is like using "What's your sign" as a pick up line. It'll make the b**ch shield go up and it'll be harder.
 

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carrot said:
I see many women with flip flops to work (NYC)
i dislike flip flops.
my feet do not feel secure and protected in them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i dislike flip flops.
my feet do not feel secure and protected in them.

I feel the same way. I'm an anomaly here in Florida, though.
 

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Women have a lot of shoes cause women are *****es, and if your outfit don't go together properly, women talk bout it. You become the kid with cooties at school, an outcast.

Also women collect shoes to please their men. Most men love a real high pair of heels and you need a decent pair to go with each kinky outfit, to complete it. We do it for you guys. My favourite would have to be my £150 thigh high leather lace up boots that only come out the closet 6 times a year, but i have had them for bout 4 years.

Plus, your feet should get just as much attention as the rest of your body, particularly if your partner has a foot fetish.
 
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