"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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backbreaker

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I made a post on here about 6 months ago in regards to the difference as to how women have sex versus how women have sex.


Women, have sex much more than men do. Much, much, much, much more than men do. However, women are more about quality then they are quanity. Women, when a woman finds a guy she likes enough to ****, she will just keep ****ing him, or a rotation of 1-3 dudes until she finds a guy she wants to date.

This accomplishes 2 things

1. It prevents her from having to feel out too many people and prevents her from being put in dangerous positions. If a woman was really going out ****ing a different dude everyday she's going ot run into someone who doesn't play nice sooner or later


2. More importantly, she can look a guy straight in the eye and say "I only slept with (low number of guys) I don't sleep around".

This is why asking a woman about her sexual history is utterly pointless. Women are hip lol. They know what we're doing.


Case in point, I'm talking to my wife we are out at lunch earlier today nad we got to talking about one of her gym buddies. Her friend ****s a different guy about every day, but it's the same 2 guys.


to make matters worse, one of the 2 guys got a short term job in utah somewhere and the girl was really really horny, and instead of going out and meeting a new guy to ****, she drove to utah lol for the weekend and ****ed him every night and came back and went to work.


But then, when you ask her how many guys she's slept with she can look you in the eye and say something like "4" and you will say "aww she's so wholesome" lol. this girl is a true skank lol



all you reallly have to do as a guy, is to become good enough to be in the rotation. it's not all that hard.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mike32ct

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I agree with the above.

I don't think most women are shopping for new dik every week. Most prefer steady dik from the right guy.

Those groups of girls at the club that arrive in a group, dance together, and don't leave with any guys likely have their own steady diks already.

Of course there are plenty of exceptions, but as a general rule, I think it's pretty accurate.
 

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lol I don't see anything wrong with that.

I mean if you are high-valued yourself, you will go for quality over quantity also.

Only those kids or low-valued guys who want to prove something will try to lay as much as possible regardless of quality. Same goes for women.

"all you reallly have to do as a guy, is to become good enough to be in the rotation. it's not all that hard."

Yes, it's not that hard to be in the rotation. What's hard is to be the man who is above that rotation, and not everyone has the ability to reach that level.
 

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backbreaker said:
Women, have sex much more than men do. Much, much, much, much more than men do.
Actually, that's not really possible unless you're including lesbians. Because if one girl is having sex, then one guy is having sex with her. By definition, it's even. But I assume you mean the average girl has much more sex than the average guy - because 20% of the guys are banging 80% or the women or something like that. That's probably the truth, or pretty close to it.

backbreaker said:
Her friend ****s a different guy about every day, but it's the same 2 guys.
I would rather have a girl who banged 2 guys 50 times each than a girl who banged 50 guys 2 times. Less chance of STDs, for one thing. Unless those two guys had huge c0cks and they just wore it out, which come to think of it is probably the case lol.
 

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zekko said:
Actually, that's not really possible unless you're including lesbians. Because if one girl is having sex, then one guy is having sex with her. By definition, it's even. But I assume you mean the average girl has much more sex than the average guy - because 20% of the guys are banging 80% or the women or something like that. That's probably the truth, or pretty close to it.


I would rather have a girl who banged 2 guys 50 times each than a girl who banged 50 guys 2 times. Less chance of STDs, for one thing. Unless those two guys had huge c0cks and they just wore it out, which come to think of it is probably the case lol.
Haha! Read the OP, she's probably taking it in turns banging them ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most guys on this site only care about quantity. I haven't banged 400 women but the ones I have were hot and smart.

Here's the thing - women don't care about sex that much. When something is so accessible to you, you value it less. That is why men place sex on a pedestal.

Also, after you've fvcked a girl a certain number of times you get tired of it. Personally I get sick of girls after 3 months.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Most guys on this site only care about quantity. I haven't banged 400 women but the ones I have were hot and smart.

Here's the thing - women don't care about sex that much. When something is so accessible to you, you value it less. That is why men place sex on a pedestal.

Also, after you've fvcked a girl a certain number of times you get tired of it. Personally I get sick of girls after 3 months.
awww don't worry skinny you will still find your soul mate someday.

serious you are still with that mentality huh? only one who still think about quantity over quality is you and some others poster who I wonder why being here if everything you guys do fail and want to tell us who are improving its won't work?

btw a question for you to think about, if woman don't care about sex, why they cheat?
 

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^ easy!! Women cheat for validation and "emotional support." Sex to them is not the same as sex for us. They do it just because they hope it'll keep us around.
 

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Women cheat for various reasons. It depends on you - she will cheat to get whatever is missing from the relationship. If you're a very stoic hardass she will cheat for what No.Danny said - validation and emotional support - and if you're a little pansy she'll cheat to get f­ucked by guy with a working d­ick. It's alpha fux / beta bux.
 

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No.Danny said:
^ easy!! Women cheat for validation and "emotional support."
This is true, but I must add that women actually do appreciate sex for its own sake. Maybe not to the extent that men do, but women also need the release of sexual tension.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skinnyguy said:
Most guys on this site only care about quantity. I haven't banged 400 women but the ones I have were hot and smart.

Here's the thing - women don't care about sex that much. When something is so accessible to you, you value it less. That is why men place sex on a pedestal.

Also, after you've fvcked a girl a certain number of times you get tired of it. Personally I get sick of girls after 3 months.

About the same time for me as well. 3 months I don't care how hot she is, I get bored and she's worthless to me sexually. I may like her for companionship at that point but I won't be as attracted to her.... so much of sexual attraction is novelty.
 

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There are some personal things about this situtation that I won't disclose lol as I don't want to get into it with my wife, but this woman is a slut lol. Just take my word on this lol. Number count be damned. It just shows three things

1. if a woman likes you she will make it known she likes you. You won't have to guess. You think Utah guy has any doubt he has this girl wrapped? And he's not "hot" or alpha either he looks like he's off duck dynasty.

2.. A woman's number is not really indicative of how much sex she has. This woman is a nympho basically.

3. I forgot
 
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