WOMEN, SEX, and the LIES told to protect the "innocent"

[STR8UP]

Check out this article-Women's libido just as strong as men's

In fact, most accounts about women's attitudes on sex should be viewed with skepticism, writes researcher Terri Fisher, PhD, a psychology professor at Ohio State University in Mansfield, Ohio. "Women are sensitive to social expectations for their sexual behavior and may be less than totally honest when asked about their behavior in some survey conditions," she says in a news release.

Just goes to confirm what I have been trying to explain to everyone here for the last few weeks.

I have followed several heated discussions recently that centered around a woman's level of sexual activity, and how men relate to it. I have noticed a few guys with their heads buried in the sand who think that most women are worthless ho's because they have chosen to lose their virginity to someone other than THEM. They take for granted that women are truthful when questioned about past sexual activity.

An even larger group of guys realize that most women DO have sex and that doesn't necessarily make them bad people. Unfortunately many of these guys are also clueless. They are on a search for a woman who hasn't been around the block and back, who will be faithful to them until death-do-us-part. The problem is too many of them believe they have a sixth sense for picking a girl who has only had sex with one or two guys she has been in LTR's with, and who would be faithful to them for all eternity.

When the answers were tabulated, it was clear -- social pressures won out. When women thought others might see their answers, they gave answers that were more socially acceptable. Women hooked up to the lie detector gave the most honest answers, reports Fisher.

So, if a woman would lie to a researcher about the number of sex partners she has had during her lifetime, what makes you think that she is going to tell YOU (a person whose opinion on the subject actually has an impact on her reproductive value) the truth? Same goes with infidelity. If, due to social pressures, she feels compelled to lie about the number of sex partners she has had, why would she tell the truth about how faithful she is?

Exactly. She wouldn't.

However, only the women's attitudes were different from men's -- not their actual sexual behavior or libido.

Another interesting point.

If you read the article with the same interest that I did, you might have noticed that when they were assured anonymity, women admitted to having had 4.4 sex partners, whereas men only reported having had 4.

So much for the idea that women are more "innocent" than men.

 

[sux2bu]

Originally posted by STR8UP
Terri Fisher, PhD, a psychology professor at Ohio State University in Mansfield, Ohio

That's all I needed to know right there.. "women conducting studies and compiling statistics on other women." And I'm supposed to believe the validity of her research, just because she has a PhD and that gives here credibility? RIGHT. Men are from Earth and girls are from a yet to be determined origin.

 

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WHAT!!! they lied about there sexual encounters
say it aint so.

but seriously what do you expect, of course women wont be totally honest when society labels them sluts for embracing sexuality.

 

[SamePendo]

Sociology studies are BS (no offense intended to anyone).
Women want c0ck when horny.
Women want to have fun at any time.
Simple and Easy.
If they dont want any of the above, they are not women. They are aliens who want to suck all your organs, so run away from them.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Originally posted by STR8UP
I have noticed a few guys with their heads buried in the sand who think that most women are worthless ho's because they have chosen to lose their virginity to someone other than THEM.

Ha ha. Observation worthy of note.

 

[Deep Dish]

SamePendo
Sociology studies are BS (no offense intended to anyone).

Why say this when this 'sociological survey' backs up what you said?

 

[SamePendo]

ummm because ... ummmm ummmmm....