"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women seriously hate me

StevenR

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Women now totally despise me. I am not only now a misogynist, but I am a stupid ugly idiot and various other things according to women. Oh, and I am slimier than a used car salesman too. Why is it when I post some of the stuff discussed here in another forum, even mentioning it in passing, that suddenly all the women on that forum misconstrue what I say, jump to conclusions, and outright slander me? They gang up on me to the point I am persona non grata and feel like an evil outcast at the mere mention of the stuff on here.
If that isn't enough, the moderators close down the thread at just the right moment so they have the last word without an opportunity to defend myself, then they threaten to ban me! So now I am a misogynist and a chump according to women. Why do women get so hostile at the mere mention of techniques and methods discussed here? Or am I really a misogynist who deserves to be hated by all women? I have never felt so alienated by, and frankly sick and tired of women, as I do now. I am seriously considering just getting a blowup doll, that would simplify things alot. Apparently I just do not get along with women at all, especially now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let me get this straight. You actually care about what a bunch of people on a forum think about you??? LOL......
 

StevenR

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I imagine they would have a similar reaction to this in real life too. I wonder what the source of their hostility is to this stuff.
 

Play the Game

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The stuff discussed on these forums should never be spoken or discussed with women. It works on an emotional level. When you bring it up in a rational conversation they'll associate it with manipulation, jerks, times they've been used. This will release all sorts of bad feelings that will cause them to lose their mind and go into an emotional fury.

See women say [rationally] that they hate jerks that treat them like crap... but they also love jerks[emotionally].

That's why nice guys are confused because they don't understand the emotional dependence on a roller coaster effect.

Oh, and stop telling them our secrets you blithering idiot. :)
 

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Dude, don't TALK about this stuff with women.

Just USE it with your interactions with them.

I don't see why you are surprised.

Keep your mouth SHUT about this stuff.

Who cares about the online issues; I just hope you aren't discussing these matters with women in REAL LIFE.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You can come to my hometown of New Orleans. Go on Bourbon street and look at the plethora of blow up dolls. Knock yourself out!

BTW, there are a whole bunch of sex toys too!
 

iqqi

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It is common knowledge, Stevie, that other forums react STRONGLY to DJ techniques and ideas. There have been a MILLION threads about these instances. Many thread wars! You should search the anything else threads for some of them. Very entertaining reads.
 

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Play the Game said:
The stuff discussed on these forums should never be spoken or discussed with women. It works on an emotional level. When you bring it up in a rational conversation they'll associate it with manipulation, jerks, times they've been used. This will release all sorts of bad feelings that will cause them to lose their mind and go into an emotional fury.

See women say [rationally] that they hate jerks that treat them like crap... but they also love jerks[emotionally].

That's why nice guys are confused because they don't understand the emotional dependence on a roller coaster effect.

Oh, and stop telling them our secrets you blithering idiot. :)
Best post here. Very true.

I hate that stupid emotional roller coaster, though. I got into it with a crazy HB the other night. I don't like to mess with these people. They annoy me.
 
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Do women treat you like this in real life? cause if not shut up and go outside cause no one cares about a bunch a fat b!tch's hateing on you on an internet fourm. You obivously are not doing much if you have time to worry about stuff like this. Seriously wake up and go out and do something before you grow a pu$$y.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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"The game is to be sold, not to be told."
 

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You're mentioning the stuff on this site...to women?! :eek: You are grounded mister!:trouble:

Talking about these methods will only tap into a woman's rationale about an abusive jerk, but emotionally, the b**ch still loves that jerk! Dude, loose lips sink ships and apparently you're the titanic. Watch yourself. Only talk about this site to MEN AND MEN ALONE! Got it, pal?

Take care of yourself. Be cool.:cool:
 

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We've actually had some pretty nasty threads here when a woman finds out about this forum, creates an account, and spends hours commenting on threads or creating new ones that will turn any new Dj AFC....again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thorns said:
We've actually had some pretty nasty threads here when a woman finds out about this forum, creates an account, and spends hours commenting on threads or creating new ones that will turn any new Dj AFC....again.
who are you talking about?
 
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