"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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April_Infinite

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I've been interested for a while in female DJs. I've always wondered how they can seduce a girl that is straight; I would think it would be just about impossible these days.

Does anyone know of a book, or something that does a good job at showing this other side of DJ'ing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dont think there are any practicing lesbians on this website.
 

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I didn't ask for any. I wish for a recommendation to a book or something like that about the subject.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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April_Infinite said:
Sir? Umm, kinda reminds me of what Marci calls Peppermint Patty in the Peanuts cartoon. By the way, weren't they.... Ummm, nevermind... You girls just keep chatting... :p
 

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penkitten said:
i dont think there are any practicing lesbians on this website.
there's wayword...:crackup:
 

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I think there are alot of women willing to experiment. It almost always involves a bit of alcohol. Women can always blame stuff on alcohol.

A shame too since my current LTR can't drink due to an alcohol allergy. She would be a tough one to convince to be with another girl though!
 

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Yeah, i was interested on how lesbians do this without the aid of alcohol, or things like this, but I guess a boy site isn't the best place to ask...
 

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I honestly don't see why any number of DJ principles or PUA skills couldn't be applied equally well for homosexuals of either sex. If a woman has an IL in another woman, you're still basically looking for the same cues and much of the same theory and technique still applies. Less secure (not necessarily insecure) individuals will always be drawn to those with confidence regardless of sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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