"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women saying they recently became single

DJDamage

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They are hinting that maybe you should step up to the plate and see whether or not you can become a replacement.

or they just want to vomit their emotions to anyone within an ear shot.

Only one way to find out, if you like her ask for her number, if you don't walk away because you got better things to do.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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heh

Dude that is a clear sign that she wants something from you!
 

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This is an overt sh!t test. I suggest you pass it confidently. Remember, women generally default to covert communication - when she overtly tells you she's recently become single again she's leaving no room for misinterpretation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sh!t tests are invaribly about determining the status of a man's confidence. Ergo, she casually mentions she's single and the sub-communication is "Are you confident enough to ask me out?" and/or "Are you mature/socially intelligent enough pick up on this blatant communication?"

(i.e. pass this easy sh! test)
 

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Sh!t tests are invaribly about determining the status of a man's confidence. Ergo, she casually mentions she's single and the sub-communication is "Are you confident enough to ask me out?" and/or "Are you mature/socially intelligent enough pick up on this blatant communication?"

(i.e. pass this easy sh! test)
LOL, I thought it was deeper than that, but I guess not.

By the way if you can master multi-level communication that women use, you can take advantage of it in so many ways it's not even funny. Recently I was describing another woman to my female boss, and mentioned that she was more "feminine" doing a straight out comparison in my head and thinking single level just as you would when you're talking to another dude. Well my boss said "Thank you" sarcastically :eek: I realized my blunder but it was too late.
 
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