Don't pay too much attention to this study.
However, DO learn the underlying, psychological factors which determine higher chances of success in an LTR.
In other words, if women are attracted to feminine features, what do those feminine features suggest to you?
Perhaps that those men have certain feminine traits that women are looking for.
What kind of feminine traits?
Well, first off, we're Men Goddamnit, so DON'T get any ideas that we should turn into women to attract women, that's wrong.
BUT...
What about good listening skills?
What about compassion?
What about having good parenting skills? Can you nurture children and a relationship?
Are you at all interested iun making a home? Well, truthfully, most Men want to build Castles, not just a home, but you know what I mean, a safe place for yuou andher, and eventualy the children.
These are things to think aboutfor those who are seeking an LTR, and/or Marriage.
For one thing, DO NOT EVER SACRIFICE YOUR MASCULINITY OR DIGNITY for the sake of an LTR or a woman.
Doing so goes against what any woman wants, and what a real Man wants to be.
It's important to realize that you are to develop yourself fully here, to self realize and reach your potential.
Becoming more "feminine" simply goes against realizing your Masculine Self. Despite the media, and some (sometimes well meaning but misguded for Males) advice from Women.
Rememebr, that most media look at Male/Female relationship from the point of view of "What does the Man do wrong? And how you can change your man! And why is your Man so inept, helpless, and clueless?? And how you can change him for the better?"
You need to develop your own internal guidance, and listen to what you feel is right. And unless you're Gay, becmoning "more" Feminine shoudl not necessarily "feel" right.
However, go back to the certain traits(These do not include wearing makeup, or getting manicures, or reading Cosmo.....) that women generally feel are essential for an LTR.
Think about that.
And do, as a true DJ does, strive for a correct balance of these traits that fit in with your Masculinity, and your self image of your true self.
So again, if you're looking for success in the long term, some questions need to be asked by yourself.
"Am I a good listener?"
"Do I fulfill my obligations and duties in the household?"
"Am I a slob, or do I fix things around the house and take care of sh!t when it breaks?"
"Can I comfort my woman?"
"Do I really work at this relationship, or do I just kick back and have a beer and forget about maintaining Attraction, Intimacy, Rapport, Challenge, Spontaneity, et?"
"How do I feel about kids? If I want them, can I be a good father and teach my son to be a Man, and my daughter to be a Lady?" (Think about that last one. Do you have any idea what makes a Lady? Do you know what makes a Quality Woman? Are you able to impart these qualities to someone else so they understand how you view women, and your understanding of their VALUE?)
Finally, surveys like these are good reminders of certain things we have to be on the look out for. They inform us, and can help us make a more intelligent decision.
But it's important (especially if you're on THIS Site) to keep in sight the Priorities you have made for yourself in your quest to be a living , breathing, happy and fulfilled True DON JUAN. And one of them should not be
"How can I become more Feminine, because after all, this survey says that's what Chicks really want??!!"
Realize your masculinity, it will never , ever steer you wrong, no matter what a woman says or what a survey displays.
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