"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Women, Power and dominance

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Originally posted by MysteryWoman
No alot of women can have sex with out emotional attachement, I am one of them. But men can do it more. I am a slut. a selective slut, sluts have fun! Good girls end up washing socks and faking orgasms
Please take this the way it's meant ...

You lucky b1tch! :p

I can't separate my emotions from sex. I don't wash socks or fake orgams though. At least, not thus far.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by MysteryWoman
No alot of women can have sex with out emotional attachement, I am one of them. But men can do it more. I am a slut. a selective slut, sluts have fun! Good girls end up washing socks and faking orgasms
Really? I really could use a good blow-job baby!:eek: ;) :D
 

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My apologies to those who hate thread regurgiating, but I have a question relating to this. Let me first say that I agree with ManOMan about how women use their sexuality to get power over men.

You said that we shouldn't let it get to us, and we should make her see that (like ignoring her) so she becomes powerless. Say you see a girl who is perfect in your eyes, and your confident that your an attractive male. When you approach such a girl for the first convo, wouldn't it be obvious to her that her "flawless" external beauty is what made you come to her? So, in essence, her POWER and DOMINANCE made you come to her. How can you say that we should make her powerless when we have to initially give into her DOMINANCE? Please expound. Thanks.
 
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Your on the path now to REALITY. Not this sympin bull shyt spit by the maggoty LTR suck ups on this board. Your almost ready for Players University brah!
 
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Originally posted by Aramas
I .[/I]There is no power struggle between men and women. There is no 'power of the pvssy' - except for those weak enough to believe there is
You live in the Matrix. You need to wake up. Here is something to help open your eyes:

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MONKEYS, DOMINATION, MASLOW, AND ATTRACTION

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There is an interesting phenomenon that occurs
when two vertebrae class animals meet in the
wild - a pecking order is immediately
established.

Abraham H. Maslow, who is responsible for the
now famous hierarchy of human needs, did
extensive research into this phenomenon in the
animal kingdom because he knew that observations
of animal behavior are usually directly
applicable to human behavior as well.

He conducted many very interesting studies.
Most pertinent to our discussion, he found that
when a pair of monkeys are introduced to each
other for the first time they will, WITHOUT
EXCEPTION, form a dominance-subordination
hierarchy. One will assume the lesser, submissive
role while the other will assume the superior
status of the dominant overlord.

WHO GETS WHAT ROLE IS COMPLETELY INDEPENDENT OF
GENDER.

In the wild, physical size is usually what
determines who will be the weak and who will be
the strong. If the female is bigger she will be
the dominant, if the male is bigger (he usually
is) he will be the dominant.

It really gets interesting when two monkeys of
the same size are put together.

What do you think determines domination then?

Get this... what researchers found was that
"sureness, lack of hesitation, a confident
posture, ****iness - in short ... self-confidence
determines the issue [of dominance]."

Isn't that amazing? Monkeys instantly "sense"
confidence in one another very much how we do as
humans.

As humans we aren't dependent on our size, or any
other physical attribute, in order to survive. For
this reason, there is much less emphasis placed
on physical size and much MORE emphasis placed on
CONFIDENCE.

Strength in general determines dominance. But,
inner strength trumps physical strength in
humans.

When you first meet a woman you and she will,
without consciously attempting it, always fall
immediately into a dominance-subordination
hierarchy (remember, whether you take the
submissive role or the powerful role is NOT tied
to your gender at all).

Here's why this is important to you...

In the wild being placed in the subordinate role
is extremely degrading. In fact, animals go so
far
as to demean the subordinate with pseudo-sexual
mounting in order to communicate dominance
symbolically - talk about disrespect.

If a woman is dominant over you she will be
forced to look upon you disrespectfully... she
is "above you." You are below her on the
unconscious dominance-subordination hierarchy.

If a woman does not respect you she CANNOT feel
attracted to you. A WOMAN CANNOT BE ATTRACTED TO
A MAN SHE DOMINATES because women NEED to be
able to respect a man in order to feel
attraction.

A woman dating a man she does not respect is the
equivalent of a man dating a woman he doesn't
find at all physically attractive - it's
completely repulsive.

When you first meet a woman she is "sensing"
your confidence. You had better be able to
communicate genuine confidence immediately or she
will automatically, by nature, assume the
dominant role and write you off as a "friend."
She will then search out a more worthy mate who
can handle her strength and is operating on her
level - someone she can respect, admire, desire,
and feel attracted to.

If a beautiful woman walked into the room right
now would you be the strong monkey or the weak
monkey?

Remember, women want to respect you - don't make
it hard for them.

Brian Caniglia
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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