I didn't believe the men here when they told me how women manipulate men in relationships.
How they basically used sex as a weapon to keep them attached and, for those with children, how they threatened to do bad things if they ever misbehaved.
Now, misbehaved means many things.
It depends on the situation:
a) She asked you to go on a 3-day holiday and you refused? Then no sex and your kids will be mad at you, or She won't let you see them.
b) She asked you to take her car to wash while she is getting her nails done and you refused? No dinner tonight.. pick up and order take out.
c) Did she ask you to watch the child while she can go to pilates and you refused? No sex tonight.
d) You took her out because it's your anniversary, and once you get home from the concert, then there's great sex. But only because she wanted it that way. It's your anniversary so she have to do that.
There are simply some women that it is very easy to read and understand that they are doing this, and maybe others are better and don't notice it, but basically, what they say about relationships is true: women are looking for a man who listens to them and who is easy to manipulate, who welcomes all her requests and who she can manipulate mainly with sex, or money if she is rich, offering him the lifestyle.
And if he's a little grumpy, it doesn't matter. The important thing is that she manages to get the upper hand after creating drama, that he gets back on track and follows her in what she says.
But it is also true that women desire men outside the relationship who can see their true nature, yet they will never be able to have a relationship with this type of man, precisely because, once in a relationship with him, they want to manipulate and take control of the man, and those kind of man, will never allow that.
So there are two kinds of man:
1st, the woman is not attracted to him but he is a good companion to make a family/LTR since He is willing to listen/accomodate, and easy to manipulate with her powers.
2nd, the woman is attracted to him, so she would have really genuine sex desire for him, but he is not willing to accomodate her 100% of the time, so she must admit to herself that she have to compromise, but for a LTR, she still prefer a man that listen to her 100%, like a dog would.
That said, I still believe there are levels of intensity where a woman manipulates a man and uses sex more as "masturbation" for herself, rather than actually getting f8cked by the man because she likes it.
When did you wake up and found out this?
And I must also say that once they have children with a man, and take the pill, some women close the gates of their ***** forever
How they basically used sex as a weapon to keep them attached and, for those with children, how they threatened to do bad things if they ever misbehaved.
Now, misbehaved means many things.
It depends on the situation:
a) She asked you to go on a 3-day holiday and you refused? Then no sex and your kids will be mad at you, or She won't let you see them.
b) She asked you to take her car to wash while she is getting her nails done and you refused? No dinner tonight.. pick up and order take out.
c) Did she ask you to watch the child while she can go to pilates and you refused? No sex tonight.
d) You took her out because it's your anniversary, and once you get home from the concert, then there's great sex. But only because she wanted it that way. It's your anniversary so she have to do that.
There are simply some women that it is very easy to read and understand that they are doing this, and maybe others are better and don't notice it, but basically, what they say about relationships is true: women are looking for a man who listens to them and who is easy to manipulate, who welcomes all her requests and who she can manipulate mainly with sex, or money if she is rich, offering him the lifestyle.
And if he's a little grumpy, it doesn't matter. The important thing is that she manages to get the upper hand after creating drama, that he gets back on track and follows her in what she says.
But it is also true that women desire men outside the relationship who can see their true nature, yet they will never be able to have a relationship with this type of man, precisely because, once in a relationship with him, they want to manipulate and take control of the man, and those kind of man, will never allow that.
So there are two kinds of man:
1st, the woman is not attracted to him but he is a good companion to make a family/LTR since He is willing to listen/accomodate, and easy to manipulate with her powers.
2nd, the woman is attracted to him, so she would have really genuine sex desire for him, but he is not willing to accomodate her 100% of the time, so she must admit to herself that she have to compromise, but for a LTR, she still prefer a man that listen to her 100%, like a dog would.
That said, I still believe there are levels of intensity where a woman manipulates a man and uses sex more as "masturbation" for herself, rather than actually getting f8cked by the man because she likes it.
When did you wake up and found out this?
And I must also say that once they have children with a man, and take the pill, some women close the gates of their ***** forever