"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I had the circumstance lately where a few women have initiated a conversation with me, do you think this is a sign of interest or do you think it's just a circumstance of them trying to be polite ???.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some may be interested, but that doesn't mean they're going to ask for your number too... Do you ask yourself these questions when a girl approaches you? If they're cute then sarge on.

The question "is she interested" can only be answered in the field.
 
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Most women aren't that aggressive, (from my experiences). A sign of interest, yes. But, a sign of attraction, It could be, but you'll have to probe more.
 
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Man, sounds like they're interested.

Where are they opening you?
 
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I will have to test the water more to know for sure, I agree
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is when they initiate a conversation with a guy, they arbitrarily assume that she's interested. She ends up avoiding a guy who's hounding her for a date or a telephone number just because she was being friendly.
 
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If your gut feeling says "She likes me" - but your masculine logic goes "Does she like me" - Go with your gut.
 
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