"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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women only gyms!

mtlwlu

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I dunno about you guys, but these piss me off to the next level, women always complain about not having rights and equal opportunities and such, but imagine if some guy made a gym and called it "no women gym" female activists would be all over it. Anyways check out this like to a gym called "nomen gym"

http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=216511015579
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrRuckus

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You realize that the people who open those gym are probably men, right?
 

I-tallionStallion

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Hmmm...I got to admit. Opening my own Women's only gym sounds like a good idea.
 

S.Y.L

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theres tons of chicks at my gym, and there hot as hell, but they keep outta the free weight area
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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Most women who go to an all women gym are either unattractive, lesbians or married.

A hot suckle thigh's woman thrives on showing her body in a gym to other men, its an ego boast that cannot be missed.

I wouldn't want to go to a men only gym either, there will be a bunch of guys who just hang out in the showers if you know what I mean, and beside's men only gym will fail finanically because most men motivations of joining a gym is due to women. A gym is like a night club, most men will not go if women are not there showing off their hot bodies.
 

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From my understanding, the logic behind Women-Only gyms is to hide the shame of the fat/old cows that go there. It makes complete sense.

Hot chicks would NEVER go to a woman-only gym, so get that out of your head.

Men are saved from the gross experience of watching whales and hags try to lose weight, and said hags/whales avoid the subsequent sense of shame of wobbling around in their wrinkled and bloated bodies in public. Everyone wins.

The gym i go to has a women-only section that is completely blocked off from the main area, and I am very grateful for it.
 

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Yeah and what about that gentlemen business club who allowed men only to join? It was a great place for gentlemen to talk bout work and business and avoid all the problems related to random girls and wives.
And guess what happened? a judge(woman)forced the owner to allow the entrance to everybody...
It's not the gym itself the problem for the reasons you said,its the double standard.
 

Alle_Gory

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DJDamage said:
I wouldn't want to go to a men only gym either, there will be a bunch of guys who just hang out in the showers if you know what I mean, and beside's men only gym will fail finanically because most men motivations of joining a gym is due to women.
You must not have been to a run of the mill gym lately. There's always a few old guys who like to walk around naked and flash the (now expired) goods at everyone. If you know what I mean.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smack

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A 'women only' gym is almost certainly not going to have the implements required for men, i.e. power racks and chalk, and be full of fat middle aged women who let themselves go moaning about how fat they are interspersed with the latest fad diets and celebrity gossip whilst using crappy, ineffective machines which guarantees that they will look no different in a years time.

Who cares if you, as a guy, cannot go there?
 

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I train at a YMCA. The gym has hot chicks and is good enough, but the locker room stinks and there's always naked old men walking around.
 

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Furyguy said:
****, figures that **** would be in Canada and not in America where we need it.
"Curves" is a female only gym and is actually VERY popular. According to my mom, they do a "circuit." Seen the people by there and they all seemed to love it.

*Shrugs*
 
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