"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Women Now Paying for Their Own Engagement Rings

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Duke

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What does the woman do for the man???? Buying a girl a ring doesn't prove schitt. A wedding ring is an outdated materialistic symbol that women use so they can run off and impress their stupid girl friends.

and I've never seen a ring plug a hole! ;-)
 
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Howiestern said:
What does the woman do for the man???? Buying a girl a ring doesn't prove schitt. A wedding ring is an outdated materialistic symbol that women use so they can run off and impress their stupid girl friends.

and I've never seen a ring plug a hole! ;-)
Right on, right on, right on
 

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Dear MDJ,
Can't you find better posts than the last three?
 

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Seems pretty interesting to me. This is very strange.

Feminism seemed like a great idea (emancipation of women) but the ramifications were unseen and were overwhelmingly negative for men.

Perhaps the balance will begin to right itself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Engagement ring was like a contract that this women is owned now by the specific man , in these days when there is always a change to breakup , rings become just a sign of the relationship status of the person , just like FB relationship status .
 

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Engagement rings were once "contracts" between man and wife. A sign to all other dudes that she was taken.

They'd agree to get married, and they'd buy the ring.

Contrary to hollywood, marriage was rarely about pure romance. It was much more of a business decision, (not completely, but more so than people would like to admit) at least in western society.

Then the diamond industry came up with the idea of the guy "surprising the girl" with the ring.

Guys shopping by themselves would spend twice as much, than if they went shopping with their wives to be.

The typical beta swallowed this new meme (you're a MAN if you're romantic, and surprise your girl with a ring) hook, line and sinker.


I would suspect that the growing trend of girls buying their own rings is a sign that girls don't want to feel obligated, even if they're married.

grrrrl power, and all that.

I suppose the takeaway from this is that if your girl starts talking about buying her own ring, because she's so independent, head for the fucking hills.
 

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what does it matter who buys it if they're getting married and hitching finances anyway?
 
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