Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women never lie. *video*

Kotaix

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I find what this guy says here to be absolutely true. Women will state what they believe to be true to go along with the narrative, and not what is actually or factually true to

I've seen it happen countless times. This is why when men keep their frame, women will conform to it. Thoughts?

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She can even lie about someone to not get killed, but kill the one that tried to exposed her. Only to keep her image.

Basically, not only women can do that. But I believe that women are way more better than men when the subject is to lie.

I've got surprised with some truths I've found that I couldn't even imagined that a woman could keep that for so long.

The more a woman try to show her best side to society, the worse their lies.

Same for men. Had some male "friends" that tried to bang the girl I was going out and silently tried to seduce her or even defame me to that woman. Some of those girls made me the favor to expose that to me, so I can catch that early.

We can only be more honest with people and with ourselves if we transcend our innate Ignorance and everything that comes with it (Rage, Envy, Jealous...). This is something I learned in Buddhism and it is something that completely changed my vision of life.

How to do that... Raising our awareness. How? Observation and Meditation.

Getting out of that Matrix is the most important step.
 
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