Women never change

[Philippe Schlichting]

If pvssy wasn't so rationed in this country, then we, as men, would eventually wake up to the fact, that it's nothing special, and become BORED of fvcking, especially the Same ole floppy flesh, cause that's all that is, a tangy smelly flesh, sometimes with moles around it, sometimes with yeast, sometimes a strange shape or blunt ugly plain-jane boxy shape to it, like your ugly guy friend's ugly big sister who wants you cause she can't get nobody else. it's just not that important in other cultures and "life goes on" in other cultures. In OUR culture life get halted, stalled and stagnated with a sh!t-ton of doctrine whorshipped and followed rooted in the teaching of Paul who says sex = bad. It's basically a warped fvcked-up psychology that's permeated our society, not normal like a virus to a computer.

Who is Paul?

 

[twentee]

Paul, from the Bible, I think?

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

Have some goddamn self respect, and perhaps maybe others will start to have respect for you as well.

Elaborate what you mean by self respect.

See... That's what I'm talking about... You guys are complaining about the status quo, and continue on with the failure mentality, and talk about giving up and moving away "because that's how things are". Bulls.h.i.t.. Own up to your failures, stop complaining and settling with "how things are in the world" - as you perceive it to be - and start improving and finding success. If what you were doing doesn't work - switch it up. Do things differently. Change your mindset.

Everything you guys are saying is from a failure's perspective, and we've all been there. It's only based on YOUR reality, which is from a lack of success. That's where all the bitterness and contempt towards women comes from. There's f.u.c.k. YOU are doing wrong; are unable to attract them, and hating them for it. But its mostly hating yourself for failing with them. It's not everyone else's fault, not everybody has zero success, and not all women are type x and treat people in y fashion. This is all from your current perspective, as tit's occuring to YOU. Not everyone gets FZ'd, never gets approached, etc.

Being successful, or at least moderately so, gains you a new perspective. But even then, there's challenges and things you don't like. Such as them going from rejection to only wanting sex, or all the drama and bulls.h.i.t. of having someone. Nothing is ever easy or care-free. f.u.c.k., you'll probably complain about women even MORE when you start attracting them, and finding out what they're really like (ie, cheating, whining, lying, backstabbing, annoying, f.u.c.k.*ing... plus controlling, using, disrespecting, and rejecting people who USED to be like you, etc). You think this is bad... Ha Ha Ha.

People mostly suck, and women aren't special. Get used to it. That's why you DON'T take all this f.u.c.k. too seriously. It's not a big deal to have a girlfriend, or whatever, and you'll probably end up smothering her into a self-created rejection by pedestalizing her once you get one. Or, dump all of your baggage onto her, blame her for your problems, hate her for being female, and try to abuse / control her into sticking with you - only to get the same result.

Admittedly, I did all this f.u.c.k. myself, and pretty much went and apef.u.c.k. and acted like an insecure / jealous / controlling nutjob, but yea... wasn't pleasant. And unnecessary.

There are other perspectives for you to see, and positions / sides to be on. Doesn't mean its not f.u.c.k., but its available.... Just not by whining, and doing nothing. Doing this - and having these negative / destructive / resentful thoughts, behaviors, and attitudes - actually REPELS women, and makes you fail and hate even more. Gotta break the cycle.

Summary: No, she did not reject you, yes you are having sex. The fact that you don't have sex is based on your mentality. Get over it.

He could also write: "You are not enlightened yet. And the reason why you are not is that you disagree with me. See if you agreed with me on <insert some crackhead idea> you would be enlightened".

I had a relationship. I know what a relationship could be like. I know drama. The fact that she behaved that way is that you are not as good as you think you are. If she is bit.chy to you, you are just not man enough.

So, this helped you, right? Of course not. As little as your text helped me.

What could really help is writing bad experiences out and not getting insulted for it - especially as nobody is free of those experiences.

There is a reason why I am stuck in this mentality and insulting me will just prolong it and not change it. This applies to everyone.

First step is to acknowledge that what I write applies, that it does not stem from some mentality but observation.

As insulting you for being sad has never helped you why in the world would you want to give me a hard time to help me? Or are you just talking to yourself here?

I tried everything I could to fu.ck the women I wanted. Note, I wrote (...I could...). This is the greatest challenge of my life. My brain is not good enough to remember the MM so I have to do direct or gunwitch.

Some people continue doing what doesn't work and succeed. I am one of those who do not have this luxury even though I have been doing pickup consciously since 2005.

Some guys I went out with said: "Wow you are very good at approaching". So at least something changed.

 

[floydb25]

Hmmmm... My intention wasn't to attack, but to direct. All you said was women suck, they act like blah etc, reject guys, and have all the power, so I said it's a problem with how you are viewing / doing things that's resulting in this... Which needs to be changed.

Then I made the point that getting with a woman isn't all peaches and roses... Ergo, don't pedestalize the idea of being in a relationship, or make it your priority, because it's nothing special, and you will still be disappointed and annoyed by them. By having this mindset, you also won't be desperate or needy, or view yourself as a failure for not having a GF, or getting rejected. That's the first step. Stop caring so much. No expectation results in no disappointment. And it's your mindset that's causing this.

Every time I did this - bad **** happened. It also makes you FEEL like **** to not have a GF, because you're focusing so much on it. Then, when you actually get one, you are desperate to make it work, and end up becoming king AFC - only to get rejected, and back to feeling a piece of **** loser again. The cycle of negativity, fear, desperation, clinginess, rejection, heart-break, hate, and low self-esteem never ends.

This is not a good way to live, and women can sense when you are desperate, try too hard, are inexperienced, seeking their approval, etc. This nice guy behavior and mentality results in a lot of failure - which results in you being negative and hating women again - which repels women even MORE. It also gives off vibes of being low status, insecure, undesirable.... Chicks don't dig that, or excessive weakness / whining in general. Regardless of what they say about wanting loyal nice guys - as they're chasing after high status, confident, "highly sought after by other women" guys who have options, act like the prize, make sure they live up to their standards, and want to win THEM over.

That's what I meant by switching the frame... So that YOU'RE the one being sought after - and not the other way around. You have options, you decide if they're good enough for you, you could leave at any time, etc. Not the other way around - only to be used / played / discarded like a chump. That's where you're at right now - trying to get THEM, and making them the prize. You won't get any respect this way.

People in general will also look down on you for being a negative failure, and not give you any respect, either. So, that needs to end. Don't expect a lot of sympathy from people - especially when they aren't very successful, either. You'll be the scapegoat for all of their failures and insecurities.

I never suggested you were a loser, or whatever. But you have a failure's mentality and complaining about the status quo - which does nothing for you. You can't just say, "AUWP, this is the way it is... gotta move to Africa", because - and this is the other point I was trying to make - you can be successful with some changes. It's not IMPOSSIBLE to be successful, and not all women are ****s. It only seems that way because you're not attracting them. So, you don't HAVE to give up. But just complaining doesn't help anything.

Of course, since you don't have a specific problem, and are just complaining, it's hard to help. Probably reading the DJ Bible thing will help. Looking at articles and tips on the net... There's a plethora of information out there. But you need to stop the negativity and change your mindset. That's the main point I'm making - with details and examples. Not to attack or claim superiority.

And again, I've been through all of this, and made these realizations... Mostly through trial and error... Lots and lots of error.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

Come to the point: which mindset are you talking about that should be better?

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

yup, and we men change but not so much women

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

In general, why am I being insulted for writing what I wrote in my first post? What did I do?