RE: People...
See... That's what I'm talking about... You guys are complaining about the status quo, and continue on with the failure mentality, and talk about giving up and moving away "because that's how things are". Bull****. Own up to your failures, stop complaining and settling with "how things are in the world" - as you perceive it to be - and start improving and finding success. If what you were doing doesn't work - switch it up. Do things differently. Change your mindset.
Everything you guys are saying is from a failure's perspective, and we've all been there. It's only based on YOUR reality, which is from a lack of success. That's where all the bitterness and contempt towards women comes from. There's **** YOU are doing wrong; are unable to attract them, and hating them for it. But its mostly hating yourself for failing with them. It's not everyone else's fault, not everybody has zero success, and not all women are type x and treat people in y fashion. This is all from your current perspective, as tit's occuring to YOU. Not everyone gets FZ'd, never gets approached, etc.
Being successful, or at least moderately so, gains you a new perspective. But even then, there's challenges and things you don't like. Such as them going from rejection to only wanting sex, or all the drama and bull**** of having someone. Nothing is ever easy or care-free. ****, you'll probably complain about women even MORE when you start attracting them, and finding out what they're really like (ie, cheating, whining, lying, backstabbing, annoying, *****ing... plus controlling, using, disrespecting, and rejecting people who USED to be like you, etc). You think this is bad... Ha Ha Ha. :nono:
People mostly suck, and women aren't special. Get used to it. That's why you DON'T take all this **** too seriously. It's not a big deal to have a girlfriend, or whatever, and you'll probably end up smothering her into a self-created rejection by pedestalizing her once you get one. Or, dump all of your baggage onto her, blame her for your problems, hate her for being female, and try to abuse / control her into sticking with you - only to get the same result.
Admittedly, I did all this **** myself, and pretty much went and ape**** and acted like an insecure / jealous / controlling nutjob, but yea... wasn't pleasant. And unnecessary.
There are other perspectives for you to see, and positions / sides to be on. Doesn't mean its not ****, but its available.... Just not by whining, and doing nothing. Doing this - and having these negative / destructive / resentful thoughts, behaviors, and attitudes - actually REPELS women, and makes you fail and hate even more. Gotta break the cycle.