Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
Pretty simple question.
Also, does it have anything to do with the friend being more or less attractive?
Also, does it have anything to do with the friend being more or less attractive?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Women more or less interested if they know you've done their friends?
- Thread starter Furyguy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Well, I'm not sure how it works if you aren't dating. If you are dating , the women she's most worried about is her friends[with good reasons]. The sense of competition they have leads to stealing BF's.
Johnny Soporno
Senior Don Juan
It depends entirely upon A) if you're GIB (Good In Bed) (ie, what her friends told her about you) and B) if she's looking at you as a playmate or as a 'boyfriend'.Furyguy said:
If you're GIB, AND you're not 'boyfriend material' because you've been explicit that you were not interested in being anyone's boyfriend, you will basically be able to sleep with every close friend of any girl you take to bed, regardless of her own relationship status.
Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy