"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women more or less interested if they know you've done their friends?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, I'm not sure how it works if you aren't dating. If you are dating , the women she's most worried about is her friends[with good reasons]. The sense of competition they have leads to stealing BF's.
 

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Furyguy said:
Pretty simple question.

Also, does it have anything to do with the friend being more or less attractive?
It depends entirely upon A) if you're GIB (Good In Bed) (ie, what her friends told her about you) and B) if she's looking at you as a playmate or as a 'boyfriend'.


If you're GIB, AND you're not 'boyfriend material' because you've been explicit that you were not interested in being anyone's boyfriend, you will basically be able to sleep with every close friend of any girl you take to bed, regardless of her own relationship status.

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