"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women make you less productive

JdelaSilviera

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I mean women are great for sex, but what would you prefer; being highly successful with women or highly sucessful in your college, job etc... ?

When I look at great men in history (and I can only dream become one of them), I see people that trully inspire me, their geniuses minds did something for humanity and I honestly feel a bit like a troll when I think the huge importance I give to woman.
Put yourself in a woman´s body. You are a small creature, with boobs, in average not very bright, and completly unbalanced mentally, why is so important for men to get their approval? They don´t even know what they like.

There are much greater things to be done in this world, and of course I will always think that women are important but they shouldn´t be your first priority, this all study of seduction can make you lose a lot of time...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ease

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Thats why we disregard females, acquire currency.

Get the money and the women will come.

M.O.B as they say.
 

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Change yourself FOR yourself. Common misconception on this board is to turn all Macho and gain confidence for women. True women come with that but the main part of being a DJ is improving yourself.
 

kyokon

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yeah its mostly just biological programming which I kinda resent sometimes. I mean if you think about it logically a man has no real need for a woman unless he wants children. yet here we are....
the most productive guys I know are either married and therefore chasing bjtches is not on their agenda anymore, or they are so hopeless they have never really had anything to do with women at all
 

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Actually, evolution in technology and productivity was in the name of pvssy. Men invented all this stuff to serve woman. To make their lives as easy as possible. Men will also strive to become rich as an easy way to get pvssy. You can tell right off the bat usually what a persons intentions are. I would say strive to be successful, but money does not always = success. Success can come in other forms as well. Success should be based on your happiness. Anything that gets in the way of your happiness is not productive.

You should read a book called "The Manipulated Man". This is outlined within the first couple chapters. It's a book written by a woman from an anti-feminism point of view. A great read indeed.

-Scars
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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everywomanshero

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Gee ya if I just didn't have these women loving me maybe I could get something done haha I guess it comes down to what is important to you. Personally, I wouldn't trade the life I've had for anything and I certainly won't be making any history books.
 

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Sometimes our biological drives are in direct conflict with what is actually good for us.
 

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Scars said:
Actually, evolution in technology and productivity was in the name of pvssy. Men invented all this stuff to serve woman. To make their lives as easy as possible. Men will also strive to become rich as an easy way to get pvssy. You can tell right off the bat usually what a persons intentions are. I would say strive to be successful, but money does not always = success. Success can come in other forms as well. Success should be based on your happiness. Anything that gets in the way of your happiness is not productive.

You should read a book called "The Manipulated Man". This is outlined within the first couple chapters. It's a book written by a woman from an anti-feminism point of view. A great read indeed.

-Scars
I'm actually half way through reading this book and it is really an interesting read. It helped give me a better understanding of how women are "natural" at manipulating men. Understanding manipulation helps you realize when you're being manipulated and can also help you prevent yourself from being manipulated.
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
I mean women are great for sex, but what would you prefer; being highly successful with women or highly sucessful in your college, job etc... ?
Obviously performing well at your job/school should be any person's top priority. But work/life balance is something we should all strive for. I see so many successful, yet horribly out of shape/sociably inept, men, I know the only action they're getting is from their frumpled wives (not likely) or escorts. Yet I know many losers who have really hot girlfriends. The best positon to be in is somewhere in the middle, doing well at your job/school while making some time to be sociable and have fun.

When I look at great men in history (and I can only dream become one of them), I see people that trully inspire me, their geniuses minds did something for humanity and I honestly feel a bit like a troll when I think the huge importance I give to woman.
Put yourself in a woman´s body. You are a small creature, with boobs, in average not very bright, and completly unbalanced mentally, why is so important for men to get their approval? They don´t even know what they like.

There are much greater things to be done in this world, and of course I will always think that women are important but they shouldn´t be your first priority, this all study of seduction can make you lose a lot of time...
I agree. Guys spend WAYY to much time obsessing over women, whether its the classic AFC who constantly calls and harrasses his oneitis, the player/PUA whose spends every waking moment studying and analyzing his woman's next move/facial tic, or the bitter/cynical men who constantly rant about the evils of the entire female gender.

Why can't we just chill the f*ck out and treat them like actual human beings on an individual basis, not paint them with one giant brush as either goddesses, trophies, or useless *** dumpsters.

So many guys have an overinflated ego and sense of entitlement they don't realize most of their problems with women would disappear if they stopped putting the p*ssy on a pedestal and focused on more productive pursuits.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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