Women are so freaking messed up. They try to play these mind games to mess with us, but i always know whats going down. This girl i was dating for a while only wanted to be friends. Last night she said to me "will you hold andthing against me" and she kept asking me and finnally i said no and she jumped on top of me. The next morning she told me that I seduced her into doing what we did. What do you guys think this girl wants? does she want to get back together or am i just her booty call here and there?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Women Make no sense
- Thread starter DJ_Dud
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
With women don't pay attension to what they say but rather what they do. There is always a contraditction to what they say or do.
I rather hear a girl say she "hates me" and then sleep with me, then a girl saying "she loves me" and doesn't sleep with me. Because I know where her true feelings lie within her actions not words.
I rather hear a girl say she "hates me" and then sleep with me, then a girl saying "she loves me" and doesn't sleep with me. Because I know where her true feelings lie within her actions not words.
Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
DJ_Dud,
Ditto on DJDamage's comments. Exactly. Only pay attention to what the girl does and not what she says.
Plus, do you really want to understand women or find out what works for you to get the kind of response that you want from women?
As far as this girl goes, do what YOU want, but don't repeat the mistakes that lead to the breakup in the first place. Get back together if you want or make her your booty call if you want or have nothing further to do with her if that's what you want.
You're the man here, so play it out as you like.
Cheers,
Mav
Ditto on DJDamage's comments. Exactly. Only pay attention to what the girl does and not what she says.
Plus, do you really want to understand women or find out what works for you to get the kind of response that you want from women?
As far as this girl goes, do what YOU want, but don't repeat the mistakes that lead to the breakup in the first place. Get back together if you want or make her your booty call if you want or have nothing further to do with her if that's what you want.
You're the man here, so play it out as you like.
Cheers,
Mav
DJBen
Master Don Juan
Since when was it about what she wanted?
What do YOU want? If you wanna get with her, get with her. If she keeps messing you around, get away from her. Simple as that.
What do YOU want? If you wanna get with her, get with her. If she keeps messing you around, get away from her. Simple as that.
DeathDealer
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Well you just learned that women are masters at verbal and mental skills. There is no way around this except for...
shutting up, or totally dominating an argument.
only few men like me are able to verbally attack women and have more than a dozen counterattacks.
shutting up, or totally dominating an argument.
only few men like me are able to verbally attack women and have more than a dozen counterattacks.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
exactly. they have ways of using words in an attempt to control you in a subconscious state. all women are hoes cause of this.Originally posted by DeathDealer
Well you just learned that women are masters at verbal and mental skills.
just think of it this way - "no means yes" and "yes means yes"
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I am a rebuttal expert. When I try and change people's perspective on things I usually understand where they are coming from and produce a win-win for all concerned. OK it's sales BS, but I do it very well.
But GFs, NO fvcking chance! Why, because most of the time they tell you a complete load of sh1t. If you challenge them they tell you that you are bullying them. If you slip up they are on you like a ton of bricks.
They have no sense of logic whatsoever. The only way to persuade is with emotion. But usually I just smile and walk away and tell them when the've finished playing silly buggers I quite fancy a shag.
But GFs, NO fvcking chance! Why, because most of the time they tell you a complete load of sh1t. If you challenge them they tell you that you are bullying them. If you slip up they are on you like a ton of bricks.
They have no sense of logic whatsoever. The only way to persuade is with emotion. But usually I just smile and walk away and tell them when the've finished playing silly buggers I quite fancy a shag.