"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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women love azzholes? my own experiment

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i did a little experiment about being an azzhole. funny shyt

we always hear from everyone around us that women love azzholes and jerks

but most men, sometimes including me even, believe in the most "common"
sense: being nice to women gets your d Ick wet. it used to be and still is

to a lot of men that being nice to women brings sex. just so common sense.
but i realized about an year that this was the feminine co ck shyt women

made to control men. fvcking biaches... lol. so i sacrificed myself to perform
my "azzhole test" on hos.

first of all if you read my post, i am walking through the valley of confusion
so this is not really really who i decided to be, but occasional experiment
kicks ass

lab rat biach#1 walks to me. i did not like her recent behavior towards me
her: hey tarotale!
me: fvck off biach
her: priceless face lolz

well this biach never talks to me again hahaha. so being a total douche azz
did not help me get laid or pull attraction. well lets go on.

lab rat biach#2 is one wierd biach. she's hot, but she says weird as hell

her: $#%%@#
me: you know, you're a fvcking weirdo (serious face)
her: offended

lololololol this biach still says hi to me and smiles, but i poker face her and
don reply b/c she slept with my buddy and i don accept sloppy second

lab rat biach #3 at a party. she is a totally stranger, but hot blond
she looks little depressed and bored

me: hey, if you came to a party, at least enjoy the time (no smile)
her: oh im sorry, today biach talk biach talk biach talk
me: well i don like seeing depressed ppl at a party. since you're kinda cute
i let you fall for me for 3 minutes. that should light you up.

biach laughed and i kept this and got her #. since she was my experiment
i erased the # though. stupid depressed ho.

maybe girls do like azzholes, but not just plain azzhole, your unique azzhole

well, so here is what i came up with. Balance is EVERYTHING.
keep the CF, slightly compliment her, be your own self, and be an azzhole
and experiment.

this shyt was fun.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're right for the most part. The only downside is that if you're not the azzhole type, you wont be able to keep up the charade for too long.
In the end it all boils down to confidence. Women like that you dont care about what they may think about you. This attitude of indifference is something that an azzhole can reflect very clearly.
 

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Wow, seems you've got some anger issues towards women.
 

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First, quit swearing so much, I feel like an 8 year old is writing a post with so many errors.

Second, that's too much of an azzhole and you went overboard. I think you were actually being very disrespetful.

Here is an example of an azzhole:
Her: I like your new hair
Me: Thanks, yours looks good too but needs a little work
Her: Shut up
Then she punched me in the arm
 

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Dole said:
Here is an example of an azzhole:
Her: I like your new hair
Me: Thanks, yours looks good too but needs a little work
Her: Shut up
Then she punched me in the arm
That's called teasing buddy. Not being an ahole. The OP guy was being a true ahole.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dole said:
First, quit swearing so much, I feel like an 8 year old is writing a post with so many errors.

Second, that's too much of an azzhole and you went overboard. I think you were actually being very disrespetful.

Here is an example of an azzhole:
Her: I like your new hair
Me: Thanks, yours looks good too but needs a little work
Her: Shut up
Then she punched me in the arm
That is not being an a-hole at all. That is much too mild to be a true a-hole. Allow me to enlighten you what an actual a-hole would say (because I have done it before):

her: I like your new hair
me: -- (annoyed look on face)
her: Aren't you going to say anything?
me: why are you talking to me? You are ruining my game, go away.
her: cry...
me: do me a favor and cry somewhere else please
her: [run away crying]
 

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its not about what you say, its more of how you say it. You have to talk and act as if you don't care. Some better than others can actually fake not caring
 

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Thatfeel21 said:
its not about what you say, its more of how you say it. You have to talk and act as if you don't care. Some better than others can actually fake not caring
Not caring doesn't make one an "*******" though... sounds more like a character/attitude trait, someone who acts like he doesn't care about anyone could actually be a very compassionate guy
 

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I told a girl that I was taking to radiation treatments that I wasn't really doing her a favor, that I just had never been to that hospital before and wanted to check it out. It That being *******?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah being azzhole works, a lot of people eventually cave in though and revert back to being AFC's because they can't handle it. yea ur going to get negative responses, but pay no attention to the meaning of what she's saying. She may something like "OMG your such a dyck, or "jerk!" or anything along those lines. DJ's won't change or supplicate, whereas AFC's revert back to their puzzy ways and become a bytch again. In woman ese, it means, "OMG my panties are so wet, f me now!."

So when you get a negative response (phone, text, in person, etc), don't fing change or say sorry or anything like that. if you do your done.

It is however, ok to create a balance. Like posters have said above, you can mix in some sincerity with your azzhole personality. Its a good form of push/pull. just remember her saying ur a "jerk!" is a LOT better than saying ur "so nice!"
 
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