"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women losing their value as they age

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Guardian is a traditionally leftist paper and it has turned it's hand towards feminism in recent years. They seem to have a fair few editors talking about it online, I can only imagine what the physical paper is like. Actually I rather not. At least this article was on point, even though the author failed to acknowledge her total hypocrisy. And it was was mildly amusing:

“You’re not like that, though, are you? Given a choice, you’d pick the older, more interesting woman, the passionate, well-read, intrepid, low-maintenance woman.”

“Nice of you to think so,” Jack said. “But I’d go for the firm arse and tits, always, without question.” :crackup:
 

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If the 50 something author went online dating site, she is far more likely to meet someone then a guy half her age. She might complain of her 'invisibility' but the fact is, as an overall, men starve in the dating marketplace while women feast.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JohnyTheArrow said:
Its called 'karma' *****es.
Note the wording from the article here: "Yes, I was gorgeous, ish, for a while, and self-absorbed, shallow, and inexperienced, and over-sensitive and dull. You’re right, mate, you’d have much preferred me then.", as if we should commend her for NOW realising that you can't get away with a rotten personality after you stop being able to ride through life on your looks. She's reaching for sympathy out of necessity, not because she's tried to develop herself into a great girl even when she had her looks which WOULD make her more attractive even when her looks fade.

And in the end of the article her guy friend mentions how she needs to shape up if she wants men to look at her. So she hasn't even tried to keep in shape and look attractive? I don't even like short hair on young women, but older ones cut their their hair off even more frequently??? it doesn't make sense! it's like a 50 year old guy purposely throwing away his best shirts, getting a monk cut, quitting the gym and then complaining. Argh, I can say more things (like how she basically complains that men don't do all the work for her anymore, I could make another two paragraphs about that) but I'll end it here...

I'll end it by saying that my job is to run a recycling station and most customers I meet are middle-aged or older. THERE ARE women who are attractive even when they're old, but they are rare. She cannot tell me that it can't be done because I have experienced it multiple times myself in person. Are they as hot as they were when they were 20? NO, but they have not lost their feminine energy. You still LIKE THEM which shines through their entire vibe without even talking with them, AND they are "coincidentally" the ones who tend to look the best too because they take care of themselves. But women like the author don't understand what those women do. She needs to read www.thefemininewoman.com and instruct young women who still have their looks to do so too, not sit and complain on the guardian - but as usual, the common thread is it's mens' fault and she is not accountable.

mangotot said:
If the 50 something author went online dating site, she is far more likely to meet someone then a guy half her age. She might complain of her 'invisibility' but the fact is, as an overall, men starve in the dating marketplace while women feast.
This too
 

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mangotot said:
She might complain of her 'invisibility' but the fact is, as an overall, men starve in the dating marketplace while women feast.
I certainly think that is true in general. Women (HB6 and above) can get abundance with the flick of their fingers.

That said she is not looking at the absolute of can't get any guys, she can - just not the guys she wants. The same guys who were doing everything for her 25 years ago will no longer look twice at her and why would they when they can get hotter younger women.

The guys who do have a fvcking clue wouldn't touch her when they can get a better deal elsewhere.

Welcome to reality. ;)
 

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This woman is what, 50 years old? And she is only just NOW realizing that men like younger women? Really?

I liked this quote from the article: “I bet you were gorgeous when you were young,” That interested me, because I just said that about somebody yesterday. It's actually a compliment, or more of a backhanded compliment, maybe it would make a nice neg, lol. But it means that she still looks pretty good for her age so she was probably really hot when she was young and shiny.
 

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LMFAO said:
The same guys who were doing everything for her 25 years ago will no longer look twice at her and why would they when they can get hotter younger women.

Welcome to my reality. ;)
Wouldn't the 'same guys' be in their 50s also? What makes you think a hot, young girl would be interested in them unless they were millionaires?

Or do you mean guys her age when she was hot will no longer look twice at her? And even then unless they are 'high value' (or at least appear so) and at the top of their game what makes you think hot girls will be interested in them? Online she'd have no problem Getting dates from any amount of desperado. That's reality.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sylvester the cat said:
Wouldn't the 'same guys' be in their 50s also? What makes you think a hot, young girl would be interested in them unless they were millionaires?
You might be surprised. Women are not men, they don't react like men do to youthful clues. In fact, I think a lot of girls have a "fetish" of sorts for older men. They find the maturity, experience, and even a bit of rough grizzled wear a turn on. For those like you who doubt this, I always encourage them to write again when they reach certain ages. They may find that their perspective has changed some.

If a guy takes care of himself and stays in good shape, a lot of younger women might find him appealing.
 

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zekko said:
You might be surprised. Women are not men, they don't react like men do to youthful clues. In fact, I think a lot of girls have a "fetish" of sorts for older men. They find the maturity, experience, and even a bit of rough grizzled wear a turn on. For those like you who doubt this, I always encourage them to write again when they reach certain ages. They may find that their perspective has changed some.

If a guy takes care of himself and stays in good shape, a lot of younger women might find him appealing.

Most guys don't take care of themselves. We're talking about the average male here now, not don Juans. Let's not make this into something it's not shall we?
 
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“Men online are the same,” I told him. “They say they’re after true love but really what they’re after is the 25-year-olds.”
Correct.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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