Women lose the Dating game, what do you think of this article?

[JaegerPilot217]

Reading it is starting to cheer me up a little bit more, of course I would love more input and thoughts on this, anyway here is the article on which it says Women end up losing the Dating Game:http://www.smh.com.au/federal-polit...omen-lose-the-dating-game-20120421-1xdn0.html

 

[old_skoolr]

It says what all the successful guys on this forum have been trying to say each and every day.

That men shouldnt focus on women as the main aspect of their life, yet focus on the things that will make them successful (fitness, careers, hobbies). Its those things that are learnt in your late teens-to early twenties that will make a man truly attractive to women once he hits his thirties.

At the end of the day, whatever romance movies, mainstram media and feminist bull**** has to say...the man is the catch. Time doesnt age him, it rewards him.

 

[Trump]

Think this has been discussed at length several times before on here, but anyway the article is nothing mind blowing. Of course women lose at the dating when they:

1. approach 30
2. don't look good
3. are very educated

Guys don't care about that crap. The only thing that matters to us is hot and young because its value is so high. Anything else we can get without much effort.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Think this has been discussed at length several times before on here, but anyway the article is nothing mind blowing. Of course women lose at the dating when they:

1. approach 30
2. don't look good
3. are very educated

Guys don't care about that crap. The only thing that matters to us is hot and young because its value is so high. Anything else we can get without much effort.

Part 3 is debatable to me, for me if a woman is very educated well it is not that I dislike women who are like that, it's just that I don't want or expect it in a woman before I consider her girlfriend material, as in it is a plus but it is not a must have for a woman, don't care if she is very educated or not

 

[Mike32ct]

It's probably more true in Austrailia which has a higher ratio of single females to males. It's probably somewhat true in the US, but not as much.

I honestly don't know any 30something women panicking about not meeting a man by X age. I'm sure they are out there, but I don't see or hear about it. Most I know are enjoying the carusel and don't really give a F. Contrary to what SS says, many 30something women still look good and enjoy reasonably high SMVs.

It's mostly single moms where I live that are hung up on finding a partner (to support their kid).

 

[Bokanovsky]

Think this has been discussed at length several times before on here, but anyway the article is nothing mind blowing. Of course women lose at the dating when they:

1. approach 30
2. don't look good
3. are very educated

Guys don't care about that crap. The only thing that matters to us is hot and young because its value is so high. Anything else we can get without much effort.

Old, ugly and educated is definitely not a good combination...unless she's running for politics (hello Hillary!) Women like that tend to become bitter, man-hating feminists.

 

[apprenticedj]

Thanks for posting this Jaegar, it put a nice smile on my face. I'm looking forward to my 30's, a decade filled with more money than I've ever made and lots of young, dumb trim to be had. Good sh*t!

 

[JoeMarron]

Most men stupidly get married before they reach their peak SMV.

I don't think this is necessarily some cardinal sin. If a man marries in his 20's, happens to like his wife and didn't settle there's really not much room to upgrade. "Dammit I married this 9.5 in my 20's when I could've waited until my SMV peaked and possibly married a 9.8!" Hell even if he marries a quality chick of average quality its not that big of a deal. "Dammit I married a virgin 7 who cooks for me, gives me sex on demand, and no drama when I could've married a virgin 9 who gives me threesomes on demand." Obviously these are exaggerations but I'm sure everyone gets the idea. I just think its silly to pass on a good thing in the present for the possibility of a slightly better thing in the future. The only reason a man should hold off is if he has some grand plans that he wants to accomplish that having a wife around would just hinder him.

To get back on topic I don't know where you've been at Jaeger but people have been saying here what that article said for thousands of years. This is ancient common knowledge.

 

[JohnChops]

you fellas are some bitter old guys.

 

[Who Dares Win]

To read this article put me in a good mood just like the news about robbers killed in a fire fight againt the police or illegals being sent back to their place anyway what made my smile even larger was reading the women commenting that article.

Anyway Im sure many users (one in particular) here dont mind going after some old used and abused woman with a high education, guess they would call them "milfs"...

 

[JoeMarron]

Of course. But let's be honest. How many guys do you see that happening to? Given that marriage is happening at an average age in the very late 20's and that 50% of them end in divorce, you are talking about a minority of a minority of men. Which of course is why I said "Most men stupidly...."

Right. Most men settle and end up marrying women they have no business marrying. However, I wouldn't want a noob flipping out because he's about to marry a good chick but he's worrying that his SMV isn't high enough. The waiting for Prince Charming mindset can apply to men too. I'm sure there's plenty of dudes not satisfied because they're chasing after the hottest women when they could be happy with less attractive but still cute chicks.

 

[Mike32ct]

Marrying young (say early 20s) has some advantages:

1. Hot wife
2. Low miles or possibly virgin wife
3. Over 20 more years of future sex instead of marrying a cougar that will "dry up" in less than 10 years.
4. Relationships are more fun when you're young
5. More energy if you have kids
6. Better chance of having healthy kids
7. When your kids are grown, you'll only be in your 40s.

However, as Danger alluded to, you might not have the experience to pick out a quality mate. You might just get together PURELY because of physical attraction. In other words, the girl marries the bad boy jerk, and the guy marries the AW princess. They are both hot, but not necessarily good LTR partners.

If you can find a quality partner while you're young, go for it. But the divorce rare remains high because many people don't end up with the right partner. (Although a young guy has less to lose in a divorce because he hasn't acquired the assets of an older man. Plus it's easier for him to find a new woman because he's younger.)

 

[JohnChops]

Of course. But let's be honest. How many guys do you see that happening to? Given that marriage is happening at an average age in the very late 20's and that 50% of them end in divorce, you are talking about a minority of a minority of men. Which of course is why I said "Most men stupidly...."






What's to be bitter about? I have a great gf, never going to get married and have multiple other women chasing me. Why? Because I'm in my 30's, have game, money and success.

Recognizing how the world works does not mean that one is "bitter".

I never said you were, look at the OPs history. He is one negative fvck.

 

[zekko]

II honestly don't know any 30something women panicking about not meeting a man by X age. I'm sure they are out there, but I don't see or hear about it. Most I know are enjoying the carusel and don't really give a F. Contrary to what SS says, many 30something women still look good and enjoy reasonably high SMVs.

It's mostly single moms where I live that are hung up on finding a partner (to support their kid).

I agree with this. I'm not sure why SoSuave is so obsessed with the 18-24 year olds. I know that they are, generally speaking, the best looking because of their youth. But there are some damn fine sexy women in their 30s, if they stay in good shape and don't lose their looks. And most of them are more interesting to talk to than their 20 year old counterparts.

I suppose the fact that there are so many young guys here of the same age is a lot of the reason. I wouldn't expect a 22 year old guy to appreciate a 34 year old woman, necessarily.

I would be more concerned that the noob is marrying a chic he *thinks* is good, which is by far a much more common occurrence.

Even if he does marry a good one, there is always the danger that the woman will change. In fact, most people do change. Interests, career paths, friends, etc. Ever hear that thing about how people go through a sort of rebirth every seven years? I think there's something to that idea.

With women, when they experience "rebirth", they can become attracted to another man. Studies have shown that if a woman changes jobs, for example, her chances of cheating go up dramatically.

5. More energy if you have kids

I've always thought that in many ways, the way to have kids is to get blindsided with them while you're young. Because once you get older and have the chance to think things out properly, you're probably going to decide that they're too expensive and too much trouble to have lol. So in some ways I think guys who have their kids young (like 23,35) are kind of lucky, and they grow up to be family men. This way, by the time you're over the shock of having them, you're already past a lot of it.

Having said that, I don't want any children.

 

[Trump]

I agree with this. I'm not sure why SoSuave is so obsessed with the 18-24 year olds. I know that they are, generally speaking, the best looking because of their youth. But there are some damn fine sexy women in their 30s, if they stay in good shape and don't lose their looks. And most of them are more interesting to talk to than their 20 year old counterparts.

I suppose the fact that there are so many young guys here of the same age is a lot of the reason. I wouldn't expect a 22 year old guy to appreciate a 34 year old woman, necessarily.

Perhaps, but in my experience any late 20 or 30 year old women has given me the feeling of "why are you talking to me, you should working to spend money on me."

That's why marriage sucks for guys who don't nail down women in early 20s. The older they get the more they realize how important money is and want nothing to do with you if you don't have none. The younger ones don't care, they want alphas.

I'm probably short sighted, but I don't see any value in a 30+ year old women can bring in a marriage.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I never said you were, look at the OPs history. He is one negative fvck.

Yes I'm aware of that, just kinda jealous and envious on how hot cute pretty young girls in their late teens and 20's have it so easy because it doesn't really matter on how they talk or speak, how their social and conversation skills are, they can be boring, immature, have no life and still get a boyfriend, laid, however if us guys want a girlfriend we need to do more self improvement, but even though that doesn't last for those girls, it's easy like that for them when they are young

 

[synergy1]

I feel this article is true to those who live in populated enough areas where there are plenty of men and women to date. The principals still hold true, but seem less applicable in a place where there are fewer quality women which makes normal womens value skyrocket...a lot. Where I live, 30 year old, and even 40 year old women still own the dating game and have good selection. There are so many men here looking for anything that they don't even have to try and can find *a* date. Now is it the date they want? unlikely. However without a large influx of younger women to displace the older women, the "wall" will never be noticed by an mid 30s women until the sexual market has more buying options.

To put it in a males perspective, I have a lot to offer relationships - in shape, intelligent, good job, good social abilities. My ability to get quality dates is very diminished compared to low quality women I know who don't work, aren't smart, aren't in shape, and really have nothing to offer. Its uncanny to see but its true. The same market value in other places is much, much different...in a similar fashion that this article is not as applicable to women in places like where I live.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Had to bump it, reminds me of an episode of Married with Children, in which Traci Lords said to All Bundy "they'll probably put me away for 20 years, will you wait for me?" then Al Bundy says "what for you'll be old", and he gives a gross look, lol

 

[LP700-4]

This has been known for quite sometime now. Heck, they don't even have to get to their 30's. Some women typically start panicking once they reach 27 and their mates start getting married off. The article made mention of how the women in their 30's are pissed that men their own age only look at women in their 20's and won't look at them. It's kinda the same way when men are younger, women would only look at older men.

I think both sexes should stop looking at marriage as the be all, end all. It's merely the start of a very long journey. Do it when you've met someone worthwhile not because your mates are getting married or society is putting pressure on you.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

This has been known for quite sometime now. Heck, they don't even have to get to their 30's. Some women typically start panicking once they reach 27 and their mates start getting married off. The article made mention of how the women in their 30's are pissed that men their own age only look at women in their 20's and won't look at them. It's kinda the same way when men are younger, women would only look at older men.

I think both sexes should stop looking at marriage as the be all, end all. It's merely the start of a very long journey. Do it when you've met someone worthwhile not because your mates are getting married or society is putting pressure on you.

I like to think of it as Karma against women for a the years they went for the bad boys instead of the nice guys, friend-zoned guys, rejected guys, had that passive luxury of not having to do anything in order to make a date or relationship happen, not having to lead or take initiative, not having to step out of comfort zone which us guys had to do