"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
women looking away and pursing lips
- Thread starter edegoge
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
8s showing interest in you, good for you, I'm jealous, but you didn't answer my question whether a woman looking away and pursing her lips means she wants me to not talk to her.
Looking sideways away or down? There’s a difference.
What's the difference? Both happen to me, I guess depending to some extent on which direction she is headed.
How is that answering? You were talking about making eye contact or looking down with a smile. Nothing about her breaking the eye contact immediately after or a little while after your eyes meet, turning her eyes and/or head away and PURSING her lips.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How don't you notice it? Because it doesn't happen to you? Because how can you not notice if it happens? I meant women in general that do this, not one woman. However there was one particular woman that did this when I passed her today. We were walking in opposite direction and passed each other. I looked at her. When our eyes met she held eye contact a little longer than some women but nevertheless she then looked down and pursed her lips.
If she looks down, she thinks your smv is higher than hers. It’s usually a free pass to hit on her.
Sideways and she’s trying to avoid any eye contact with you. Instant rejection there.
If she’s looking at the sky, she may be praying you don’t see her.
Only one way to find out what she’s thinking about you though… a direct approach
