"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women like to be treated like ****

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Or maybe it is just the ones with low self-esteem (majority of women)

You ever notice the women you don't like, like you and vice versa? This always seems to happen to me.

E.G.

There was this girl on my floor at grad school who liked me. I did not find her attractive and she was extremely annoying. I was NEVER nice to her and did the following on many occasions.

1.) Never complimented her

2.) When she would talk to me in the cafeteria my eyes would wander to check out the other cute women in the vicinity.

3.) I Would talk about how hot other women were in front of her

4.) I hooked up with another girl 2X right in front of her

5.) I only returned her e-mails and phone calls 50% of the time.

Eventhough school is over and I have not seen her, She still e-mails me and calls me despite me not returning her calls and e-mails most of the time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women like a man to take control and be dominant. All that treating women like crap is from AFC's perspective, because in their wolrd taking control and being dominant is not nice.


That girl you talking about wanted what she couldn't have.
 

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Mr. Wolf said:
Women like a man to take control and be dominant. All that treating women like crap is from AFC's perspective, because in their wolrd taking control and being dominant is not nice.


That girl you talking about wanted what she couldn't have.
I would probably respect her more if she told me to fukk off. She should since I am not nice to her.
 

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A woman with low self-esteem is like Groucho Marx: they will 'never join a club that would have them as a member'.

Men and women look for a partner who will confirm for them what they believe about themselves. So if a woman thinks she is a piece of sh!t, then she will look for men who confirm that self-image.

What we end up having is generations of women who reward bad behavior in men because these women think they deserve to be treated badly. Whereas they will reject the men who treat them well, for one of several reasons. One reason is that the man who treats her well isn't validating her own self-imagine. Another reason is that if he sees her true self, and loves her anyway, then something must be wrong with him (or so the woman thinks).

Dump some passive-aggressive behavior on top of that and you have the whirlwind of sh!t that is too common in the modern woman.

:rock:
 

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Mr. Wolf said:
Women like a man to take control and be dominant. All that treating women like crap is from AFC's perspective, because in their wolrd taking control and being dominant is not nice.
I would add to that, in their world doing anything OTHER than supplicating and putting them on a pedestal equals "treating women like shyt".

"Oh I could never not call her back right away... don't want her to think I'm a big jerk."

etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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