"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Women Like Men Who Are With Women?

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Why do women like men who are seen with other women? they think that since he has women around him, he must be the prize? or something special about him?

Now what I want to know is that, since DJ does not recommend being just friends with women, should I act AFC with couple of women friends so they are with me. This way I can DJ more easily?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
..should I act AFC with couple of women friends so they are with me. This way I can DJ more easily?
You bastard, I think you are a troll sent by the AFC gods to rile PR_L!!!!!

Your name shouldn't be "Six Pak GQ" - it should read "Six Pack to GO"
 
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Acting 'AFC' is 'demeaning' and 'counterproductive' no matter what the end goal is to be accomplished!!!

Don't be a chump for any reason or for anyone!!!
 
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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
puerto : my topic is legitmate....
So are my replies!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It makes them jealous and it might make them think you have something going for youself if you have women around you. Say you're a good looking guy in college and you don't have women around you ever I think some girls will think there is something wrong with you, and that might scare them off from possibly starting a conversation with you.
 

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I don't understand how acting AFC is going to get women to be with you?

Acting like a DJ will so why not just do that???
 

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yeah I've had this thought, as well... here's the problem with that...

If you are AFC around the chicks that are just your friends... when other women see you with these women, their opinion of you will be affected not by you just being with the girls, but HOW they treat you.

If the friends treat you like an AFC, others will see you as "one of the girls", if the friends treat you like a DJ, others will see you as "Damn, I've gotta get some of him."

Make sense now?
 

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i was up at the local mall just before i found this site a month ago.

chatting up a HB9 ( the reason i came to this site lol )

some chicks who knew me came up and started trying to hang around me cause i am cool.

but as they walked up another group of girls came from the right and both arrived next to me at the same time.

i had decided to sit by myself to meet this HB9 who was by herself waiting for her friend.

anyways the two groups of chicks both came charging up. then stopped and started to talk to me.

both groups looked at the other group and froze totally confused.

i now had 3 sets of chicks around me out the front of the mall and damn did i look like a mutha fu**in' pimp !

the look on these b*tches faces when they realised they had sooo much competition for my attention...

PRICELESS

and the HB9 who i had met 5 minutes ago, took me up on my offer to drive her home instead of catch the bus ( she lived down the road ) after i dropped her off she called my mobile phone and asked if i wanted to do something..so i went back and picked her up ( i stuffed up later on lol )

competition or the PERCEPTION ( remember that word ) of competition over a guy will make women do CRAZY $HIT

b*tches are mental, just accept it. they will suck your d*ck upon meeting you if they think it will show another woman up.

peace,


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 

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Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
Why do women like men who are seen with other women? they think that since he has women around him, he must be the prize? or something special about him?

Now what I want to know is that, since DJ does not recommend being just friends with women, should I act AFC with couple of women friends so they are with me. This way I can DJ more easily?
Women like men who have a female fan club. A group of women who would all love to marry/be girlfriend/have sex with etc. that guy.

Their is no advantage to having a bunch of Lets just be friends girls around.

Hope that clears it up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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be friends with women. Their called pivots. When you go out you see your pivots and you hug them and **** and your targets will be curious about you. Plus they can hook you up with potential targets. And do other misc ****.
 

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What I am trying to say is that if the guy is surrounded by his female friends whether they think of him as a AFC or a DJ, why does this matter? even if they see him as an AFC, other women will still come to him right regardless.
 

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hmm.... sounds dangerous

if you BELONG ( in their minds ) to these " female friends " ie. you AFC / LJBF.

they will c*ck block you because you spend time / money on them , drive them around etc.

if you were to get a gf all these things would stop.

THIS IS HOW B*TCHES THINK.

they are THE WORST c*ck blockers.

why you think the QUEEN in the most powerful piece on a CHESS board ?

i avoid female friends. i keep it strictly limited to b*tches i know. they can be my friend and do stuff for me fine. do i have time to just hang out with every b*tch i meet ? ( LJBF ) HELL NO. I tell ALL of them unless they are down with MY PROGRAM i ain't got time for them. b*tches respect this. sure plenty of them try guilt trips etc etc etc. but at the end of the day you just do what women do to men when they have low interest levels.

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woman " we are best freinds and i don't want to ruin that so lets just be friends "

guy " but i like you so much "

woman " i just enjoy you talking to me 3 hours a day on the phone and spending all your time massaging my ego after Lost In Translation treats me like a ho and kicks my out of his car when i act up "

guy " i can't help the way i feel , i guess we can still be best friends and see each other every day "

from that day on the guy doesnt hear from the woman.
******************************

but they were best freinds ? he did everything for this b*tch ?

b*tches are cold and they full of $hit.

remember it's their ACTIONS not their WORDS.

haha i love the reaction when b*tches get the same treatment.

they try and use me. i make them LJBF. they try and use me still.

NOW they no longer have access to the pimp.

until they GET WITH MY PROGRAM.

and guys you would be amazed alot of women eventually come around LOL. 2 weeks later RING RING. so i hit em up for the hook up ( yes i am very direct but if i lost her already i got nothing to lose ) and the b*cth says YES :)

now i really start fu**ing with them LOL

keep it real my fellow DJ's and never be afraid to lay the smack down on a HO




Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 

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In sales technique it's called the law of scarcity. High demand or at least perception of adds value to you.
 
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