Ahhh okay that clears it up.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women know logical fallacies but still commit them
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- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Barrister
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Having been with a female lawyer in an LTR for 2.5 years I can tell you that even "logical" women are experts at distorting reality to fit into their own version of facts to benefit themselves. I do think it is biological. However, my ex was great at sounding like what she was saying was absolutely correct from a logical standpoint until you realized the more you spoke to her about why she felt the way she did. We basically just spoke in circles with her never admitting to ever being wrong. There was always some angle I wasn't seeing in her mind (or so she would tell me) when in reality it was just the same ole' tired sh1t that every woman pulls. You know the one - she is emotional and feeling bad so you are in the wrong.
At the end of the day, a woman will argue with a man the same way whether she has a high IQ or a low one. IQ isn't nearly as important for an LTR to last IMO as it is for the woman to be able to own her mistakes and acknowledge when she is wrong and being emotional. Doesn't mean it is easy to deal with the swings she experiences, but it is impossible to be with a woman who never admits fault and wants to explain to you why you are wrong every step of the way when, in reality, her emotions have gotten the better of her.
At the end of the day, a woman will argue with a man the same way whether she has a high IQ or a low one. IQ isn't nearly as important for an LTR to last IMO as it is for the woman to be able to own her mistakes and acknowledge when she is wrong and being emotional. Doesn't mean it is easy to deal with the swings she experiences, but it is impossible to be with a woman who never admits fault and wants to explain to you why you are wrong every step of the way when, in reality, her emotions have gotten the better of her.
Barrister
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Women who admit they're wrong? No - not unicorn level. But also not a dime a dozen. And they will still give you hell before they finally come around like any women will. They just have the ability to say they're sorry to you when it is all said and done. That is when you give her a pat on the ass and tell her you forgive her only after she has realized the errors of her ways.