"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women just aren't interested in me

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VastanVer2.0

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I've always been bad with women. I've never really had a normal dating life, other than the 1 girlfriend I've had. I've gone on dates, but they usually last 1 or 2 dates, and sex never happens. I'm told that I'm good looking and should have a girlfriend too. I started studying this stuff 2 years ago, but it really hasn't helped at all. It just frustrates me to no end to see guys get girls (including my roommate who ****s multiple girls). Girls give me their number sometimes when I ask but never respond or want to chill. I want to give up but everytime I try to I end up going out, texting girls, and trying again (but ultimately failing). I'm a failure at quitting too.

FML, I just want to die.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First of all, if you try to fail and succeed, which of these have you done?

Anyways, realize that the number of men who have access to dating advice/ PUA material is growing every day. You should work on getting your first million or start up a business. If you've always been bad with women, fix it! Find the problem, get off your ass and handle your business. Try getting some of your friends to help you meet chicks. But be careful. Two wingmen you don't want are:

1. Those who'll f**k it up for him AND YOU.
2. Those who'll get a girl and leave you winging (or whacking) it.

Get out the house. The fact that I had a girlfriend years ago may have been a sign that I play too much Nintendo, mostly Mario and Zelda. But it never would have happened if the game wasn't turned off.

Sometimes it's all about luck.
 
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