I'll probably get flamed by some just by asking this question but for some time now I've been finding it to be mostly true. Women swear that men are the ones afraid of intelligent women but I believe it's the females who feel threatened. Why is this?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Women intimidated by intelligence?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
After many years of GIRL POWER and getting built up as the more intelligent gender, chicks are terrified of men who make them look dumb. Men OTOH don't mind it so much as it's socially acceptable nowadays for a guy to appear dumber than his girl.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
they aren't intimiated by it.
they just aren't attracted to it.
they just aren't attracted to it.
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sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Intellilgent men can't relate to the general populace[in manycases]. It is the lack of social intelligence that is the problem.BUT, when you are 40 IQ points above them, you need to "dumb down" your conversation-does the average person talk smart with the retarded table washer in the mall, or dumb it down? Unless you are trying to beat it into them all the time that you are smarter then they are[don't like it when a woman tries it with me,they don't like it either], it isn't a problem. It should be an additional plus for you.
BUT NEVER talk about what you learn here, it can be used,but never discussed-you'll just piss them off.
BUT NEVER talk about what you learn here, it can be used,but never discussed-you'll just piss them off.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Yes and no. Yes because no one like its when a person is talking over their head. No because there are women out there who actually like a guy who is intelligent since he can usually figure out stuff that gets them out of tight situations. The thing is not to rely on your intellect as an attraction; rely on the use of it to create attraction.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i think alot of people are overestimating how "smart" they really are.
I seriously doubt everyone here is "vastly" superior as far as intelligence to the general population.
I am conidered to be pretty darn smart and I have an IQ of 134. That's a little above avg but it's not anywhre near these 40 points higher than the general poplation, etc.
I by no means think I'm the most intelligent person here, but I'm not chopped liver either.
Also smart is relaitve. If you have an "IQ" of 150, and you work at wendy's and live with mom, just "smart" are you?
Being able to predict the next number in a sequence or predict the next triangle that will be shaded has little to do with real world intelligence. Has little to do with matuity, patience, understanding, social skills, work ethic, persistance, etc
I seriously doubt everyone here is "vastly" superior as far as intelligence to the general population.
I am conidered to be pretty darn smart and I have an IQ of 134. That's a little above avg but it's not anywhre near these 40 points higher than the general poplation, etc.
I by no means think I'm the most intelligent person here, but I'm not chopped liver either.
Also smart is relaitve. If you have an "IQ" of 150, and you work at wendy's and live with mom, just "smart" are you?
Being able to predict the next number in a sequence or predict the next triangle that will be shaded has little to do with real world intelligence. Has little to do with matuity, patience, understanding, social skills, work ethic, persistance, etc
Commandante
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What are we exactly talking about?
abstract intelligence?
emotional intelligence?
common sense?
level of education?
abstract intelligence?
emotional intelligence?
common sense?
level of education?
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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.