Women interest change

[jhonny9546]

I'd love to discuss something I've read on a sosuave article here

How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested In You?

How to tell if a girl is interested in you? The important thing to remember is not to confuse her interest with her mood.

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The interest that the woman has is still *there*, it's just not *activated* unless you are in her presence.

So, basically, it says that a woman will think of you when you're around her, or that her interest in you will increase when you're with her. Instead, we've learned that giving her space and not being around her is what actually increases her interest in you.

So, this advice is fundamentally flawed? What do you think?

 

[BaronOfHair]

@jhonny9546 "Instead, we've learned that giving her space and not being around her is what actually increases her interest in you"

This is comparable to what Chris Voss discusses in Never Split The Difference, when he instructs readers to use The Aggressive Voice sparingly:

Being TOO EAGER to seal the deal drives away those we're trying to persuade

 

[plumber]

@jhonny9546 "Instead, we've learned that giving her space and not being around her is what actually increases her interest in you"

This is comparable to what Chris Voss discusses in Never Split The Difference, when he instructs readers to use The Aggressive Voice sparingly:

Being TOO EAGER to seal the deal drives away those we're trying to persuade

one of the best books for how to deal with difficult situations.