Women in your area, what do they look like?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

ThisNThat

Banned

Apr 11, 2017

When going through the online dating sites of my location. It seems every woman on there, with an exception of a few, probably way more than 200 pounds. If they are thin, they look like a truck stop hooker..you know, the leather faced complexion as if they've been in the sun for way too long.

Those exceptions that I'm talking about, even if you mildly say to yourself, "She's cute." in a mediocre fashion...chances are her inbox is stuffed to the gills.

Funny thing is, most average , but cute Janes I've dated...I didn't meet online, but out socializing.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.